Are you a nicer person, if you drive a cheaper car?

I'm sorry, but that sounds like a bunch of "you know what".

Anytime someone generalizes with "they, those, people, them, etc.", it's suspicious and usually not true. I have plenty of friends who are as nice as can be and they drive beautiful, high-end cars. For example, the lady next door drives a new Honda, lives alone, and is a retired Baptist minister.

I drive an old Honda Civic with 150,000 miles and I'm not an icon of any kind of "nice person", depending upon the definition.
 
As a social scientist myself, this made me chuckle. First of all, you can never trust the media to understand scientific studies or to report them accurately. However, even if the reporter is interpreting the studies correctly, what the researchers "speculate" and "theorize" doesn't match their own data very well, as they also found the following contradictory evidence:

"But he also found people with "conscientious" characters seek out pricey models, too.
"People with this type of personality are, as a rule, respectable, ambitious, reliable and well-organised," the statement said. "They take care of themselves and their health and often perform well at work."

They even say that they are speculating and theorizing as to the causes of what they were testing (which seems to be a very limited way of testing whether someone is "nice" or not).

Researchers from the University of Nevada, Las Vegas speculated that the expensive car owners "felt a sense of superiority over other road users" and were less able to empathize with lowly sidewalk-dwellers.

"Disengagement and a lower ability to interpret thoughts and feelings of others along with feelings of entitlement and narcissism may lead to a lack of empathy for pedestrians" among costly car owners, they theorized in the study.
 
My husband had an F350 dually, best truck on the road....LoL ....he was a great guy n also got a caddy n was still a great guy! It’s not fair to judge someone because they can buy expensive things, I’ve known some people that drove really beat up cars that were jerks!
 
Well my husband is a decent, hard-working thoughtful guy, who rarely judges people on any level , ... and drives a verrrry expensive car.....

I drive a much cheaper model.... ( and I think I'm a kind and considerate person ) ...it's all nonsense...

I know some really a-holes who drive both expensive and cheap cars...
 
I also have an old '93 beat-up pickup that looks like h**l, but I've had it and love it. My wife and I use it sometimes to go to the supermarket or to a restaurant close by and she puts on her old straw had and I put on my old beat work hat and we look like Ma and Pa Kettle.
(if you don't know who that is, the you're probably below 70 years old.)
 
I also have an old '93 beat-up pickup that looks like h**l, but I've had it and love it. My wife and I use it sometimes to go to the supermarket or to a restaurant close by and she puts on her old straw had and I put on my old beat work hat and we look like Ma and Pa Kettle.
(if you don't know who that is, the you're probably below 70 years old.)
I'm well under 70, so I don't know but I can google... :D
 
This thread reminds me of Suze Orman, she used to say that if a person drove a messy unkempt car that it was a good indication that they had a low credit score were in debt and that their financial life was in chaos.

Believing that a person who drives a posh car is a jerk may be a case of sour grapes.

IMO most people have a tendency to pigeon hole or profile strangers based on what they see even though they have no factual information to support their beliefs.
 
I'm a retired senior & I drive a fuel efficient 4 cyclinder. However, almost all the seniors here drive huge SUVs or trucks. Doesn't say much for the future of this planet. I think it is the very cheap gas. No wonder millennials are often mad at us seniors because they think we are the cause of what they have inherited (global warming). PS: Don't know if I'm nice because that evaluation would be too subjective. Everyone thinks they are wonderful. Ever meet anyone who will admit to be a big jerk? LOL Bet you that Harvey Weinstein & Peter Nygard think that they are just wonderful guys too? Go figure!
 
I tend to agree with Suze, whom I knew as Susie, in high school. When I was dating around, I quickly lost interest in women who drove pieces of junk that were messy inside and out. They did, in fact, tend to be lousy with money, and very disorganized.
 

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