Are You Ambidextrous?

Chet

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My left hand is my dominant hand and it has naturally been my "go to" hand for almost everything. Well, with arthritis getting in that hand as elsewhere, the left hand is starting to complain, so I'm trying to have the right share some of the work, but it takes a conscious effort to do so with sometimes clumsy results but I have to try.
 

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As far as I know, many of us left handers are at least partially ambidextrous due to necessity. I write left handed and use a fork left handed. Most other things I do right handed because that is how most of the tools are made. In hindsight, I am SO glad that I learned to play guitar right handed because left handed guitars are harder to get and anything guitar-oriented is largely written for right handers. This is just the way it is and I feel sorry for those left handers who simply cannot adjust. I know a few and they are always swimming upstream.

Tony
 
Yes, I am. When I was in first grade, I would pick up the pencil with my left hand. The teacher would hit me HARD with a ruler everytime she saw that. I would come home with cuts and bruises on my left hand.
My Mother had a "teacher's conference" and ended THAT!
 

With any activity that requires coordination of both hands, I am left handed. I play golf, bat, rifle shoot, sweep etc. left handed. When doing things that require only one hand (throwing, pistol shooting. writing etc. I am right dominant. I can write with my left hand but I am not practiced at doing so.
 
We lefties are born into a right handed world and have to adapt accordingly. I learned to play some sports righty as I wasn't accepted by my peers if I did not. But in just about all else, I am a southpaw. Only one in my family. But, my paternal grandmother was said to have been ambidexterous. Who knows, I never knew her.
 
I write with my right hand, I catch and throw right handed, but I can do most anything else with either hand. My stance is left handed; I bat and golf left handed. When I was a kid, riding skateboards, I stood on it with my right foot ahead of left; a left handed stance.
I always got on on a horse the opposite side than right handers. Even though I was told it would spook the horse doing so, I never had a problem.

I believe it's called mixed handedness.
 
It can be a real quandary with two hands, which to use for what. Same with ears - which to to listen to what with. Same issue with our legs, which foot goes first. With two lungs, it is a good thing our breathing can be on automatic pilot.

Can you imagine how it would be for a centipede if it was asked which leg goes first?

I think somebody was having fun when we were designed.

Notice that there was never a patent applied for on our design. Also, we didn't come with a user guide because whoever designed us probably hadn't figured it all out yet prior to release either. :ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO:

Tony
 
As far as I know, many of us left handers are at least partially ambidextrous due to necessity. I write left handed and use a fork left handed. Most other things I do right handed because that is how most of the tools are made. In hindsight, I am SO glad that I learned to play guitar right handed because left handed guitars are harder to get and anything guitar-oriented is largely written for right handers. This is just the way it is and I feel sorry for those left handers who simply cannot adjust. I know a few and they are always swimming upstream.

Tony
Learning to play guitar with your right hand when you are left handed is quite the accomplishment. Left handed guitars 🎸 are hard to get since they aren’t as commonly made.
 
Learning to play guitar with your right hand when you are left handed is quite the accomplishment. Left handed guitars 🎸 are hard to get since they aren’t as commonly made.
That is exactly right. Also, almost all teaching books and any other written material for guitar that contains diagrams such as fretboard and chord diagrams and/or tablature, is done for right handers. Usually, you would have to special order what little material there may be for left handers.

I know a few people who are so left handed they couldn't learn to play guitar right handed, and they have to laboriously draw out the various diagrams for left hand.

To me, it would seem MUCH easier to just learn all this stuff by ear off recordings as we did back in the 70s and earlier before there was all this teaching material.

Tony
 
That is exactly right. Also, almost all teaching books and any other written material for guitar that contains diagrams such as fretboard and chord diagrams and/or tablature, is done for right handers. Usually, you would have to special order what little material there may be for left handers.

I know a few people who are so left handed they couldn't learn to play guitar right handed, and they have to laboriously draw out the various diagrams for left hand.

To me, it would seem MUCH easier to just learn all this stuff by ear off recordings as we did back in the 70s and earlier before there was all this teaching material.

Tony
Oh I hadn’t even thought about the music charts or scores. They are all written for right handed people. You left handers really had it rough for a lot of things since the majority rules.

Then again, the very reason you tried extra hard was probably mostly due to being left handed. It was quite an accomplishment but you became an accomplished musician.

Most of my playing I had done by learning how to read music etc. I can site read fairly well but nothing compares to being able to pick a song you like and play it in the key you want as opposed to the key it’s written in. It’s totally priceless.
 
Oh I hadn’t even thought about the music charts or scores. They are all written for right handed people. You left handers really had it rough for a lot of things since the majority rules.

Then again, the very reason you tried extra hard was probably mostly due to being left handed. It was quite an accomplishment but you became an accomplished musician.

Most of my playing I had done by learning how to read music etc. I can site read fairly well but nothing compares to being able to pick a song you like and play it in the key you want as opposed to the key it’s written in. It’s totally priceless.
Excellent! I taught myself to read music and see it as another tool among many. I learned to play by ear initially since there were no books containing the music I wanted to play. That is very typical of those who learned during that time.

Another skill is called "reading charts". Pardon me if you already know this...

A "chart" is also known as a "lead sheet". A lead sheet consists of just the melody line in standard notation and chord symbols such as "C ma7" or "G7" written above it at the appropriate places to play those chords. It is your job to translate this into music by knowing a library of chord forms along with the ability to read the melody line.

The skills needed outside the classical world usually involve being able to play by ear, which involves being able to hear what is going on and respond with appropriate chords and leads that come out of the scales you would also have learned all over the fretboard. Sometimes, you might be called on to read, but in my experience, that usually happened during the audition rather than the gig as a way of weeding out people. For these things I am not talking about a rock band playing college bar gigs as a "weekend warrior", but instead a pro full time working band playing supper clubs, resorts, and such where the money is for steady employment back when that was still possible. Also, for studio work which I have done too. Most of this work that I am talking about used to be union, but I don't know what the market is like these days. I was in the American Federation of Musicians for the work I did.

My theory (I don't know this to contain any actual truth...), is that when first learning to play guitar, it will feel weird no matter which way one learns. Therefore, it would seem to me that left handers would want to go through the initial weirdness playing right handed. However, the few people I know who play left handed have told me with absolute certainty that this assumption on my part isn't true, that some people are so left handed, that any attempt to do anything the way right handed people do, simply won't work. All I can say is that I am really glad I am not one of those.

The good thing about playing by ear is that the skill required is called "relative pitch". This is very different from "perfect pitch". With perfect pitch, you could play a note and the person with perfect pitch can tell you what that note is, or possibly play a chord and that person could tell you what the chord is and what notes are in it. Relative pitch is being able to hear a note and match it with your voice and/or your instrument.

You learn using relative pitch by listening to a recorded passage over and over, matching the notes you hear to those on your instrument. There are all manner of tricks to help such as knowing diatonic theory so you quickly establish the key (very easy to do) and then know via theory what chords are likely to be used, saving a lot of "hunting and pecking". Listen to the bass to determine what the chords are, and then the rest of the chord to determine the type (maj, min, dom, etc.).

The good thing about relative pitch is that it is not a talent, but instead a skill that anyone can learn just by doing it. The good thing about that is that for most pop music, sheet music is often wrong and you end up using your ear to figure it out anyway. :)

Anyway, I guess I really took off on this post, much longer than it should be so I will stop here. I hope it is of some interest.

Tony
 
Mostly right but a lot with left only and a lot with either. I bowl and throw underhand with L. Use a mouse left handed or both. Many household chores, either or both. One odd thing I did back when I did much more ironing is iron with both hands, passing it back and forth one to the other. Left eye and left ear both dominant of the two.
 
The mention of the mouse being set for a right hander is a reminder that it is how my husband set it for me. For years now, he’s the only one who uses it 99.9% of the time and it’s still set like that.
 
Learning to play guitar with your right hand when you are left handed is quite the accomplishment. Left handed guitars 🎸 are hard to get since they aren’t as commonly made.
i never thought of left-handed guitars!?! guess i thought you just put strings on in opposite direction.
 


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