I have always lived my life as a black independent female. I grew up during the Civil rights movement and the women's rights movement. I did not marry but I came close and had love in my life. I was not beautiful but I was attractive and had no problems attracting men.
Now I am a senior woman, in the past year my cosmetologists have chosen to ruin my hair and now I don't feel attractive. I am older so younger women and senior women seem to be taking all the men I attract. As I stated before I am black and I am not interested in hispanic male or female relationships. I would like to have a relationship with a non-other culture male, but I know that seniors are with limited choices.
Other cultures that are not white or black are interested in me because I live in a sanctuary city. They want my money and my property that is all they want. They are being very aggressive. In the city where I live the NAACP, City Manager's office, and many businesses and offices are controled by Hispanic. The governor was even Hispanic. Their culture thinks differently than Americans.
Life for me has become complicated. Men like them because they are attractive and business likes them because they speak another language. They seem to be promoting "It takes a village philosophy" I don't. They think seniors should help with children and be house people as usual, especially senior black females because who wants them? They want to control us. Some of us are back to mopping floors, taking care of children that are not ours and heavy labor. We are doing this in our senior years. We have worked hard to change these attitudes about black females and now we are being receded back. Black men are being aroused by hispanic and white women and most have chosen to support them, not back females.
I live in Kansas. What do you think? Of course not all black females but the black females that are having this experience are suffering and insulted.
Now I am a senior woman, in the past year my cosmetologists have chosen to ruin my hair and now I don't feel attractive. I am older so younger women and senior women seem to be taking all the men I attract. As I stated before I am black and I am not interested in hispanic male or female relationships. I would like to have a relationship with a non-other culture male, but I know that seniors are with limited choices.
Other cultures that are not white or black are interested in me because I live in a sanctuary city. They want my money and my property that is all they want. They are being very aggressive. In the city where I live the NAACP, City Manager's office, and many businesses and offices are controled by Hispanic. The governor was even Hispanic. Their culture thinks differently than Americans.
Life for me has become complicated. Men like them because they are attractive and business likes them because they speak another language. They seem to be promoting "It takes a village philosophy" I don't. They think seniors should help with children and be house people as usual, especially senior black females because who wants them? They want to control us. Some of us are back to mopping floors, taking care of children that are not ours and heavy labor. We are doing this in our senior years. We have worked hard to change these attitudes about black females and now we are being receded back. Black men are being aroused by hispanic and white women and most have chosen to support them, not back females.
I live in Kansas. What do you think? Of course not all black females but the black females that are having this experience are suffering and insulted.
