Fur, how's it going with your house dilemma?
PFFFFFFFT, a backstory to explain where we're at now...My father in law lived with my husband for several years after becoming seriously disabled. Me and my husband were separated at the time, I still whip myself for that. But anyways one day his brother called and said " Bring Dad over and we'll give you a break for awhile". My husband took his Dad to their house in Virginia and went back home to Jersey.
Within a week his brother had seized his Dad's bank account and benefits. Oh and how convenient...his dear old Dad died a month of moving there. Yes I know what you're thinking, I think that too. Even better is just before he died there was a new will drawn up making this schmuck the executor of the will. My husband is not the brightest crayon in the box...but if that was my brother it would have become uglier than sleeping with the fish.
Ten years later and we get a lawyers notice saying his brother has decided to sell the house out from under us. Then out of the blue he calls and wants to talk to his brother. NOW I know why. When my father in law died they had a somewhat elaborate traditional funeral. They would divide the expense between my husband, his sister, and the brother. His brother despised his father in life...there was no way he was going to chip in a penny for the funeral.
Do I have to mention that the funeral home in question caters to many um "fine businessmen" in our community? They don't take kindly to outstanding bills. Apparently they put a lien on his brothers house. Awwww he would have sold this house and put us out with glee, but his house is a different story. When he called my husband he wanted to talk brother to brother about how upsetting this situation is. GRRRRRRRRR
All I would need is a nice sniper rifle. Then again he's not worth it...he'll hang his own idiot self in the end
