I think you may have gotten the wrong idea about the English language. I can't tell by what I've seen of your writing around the forum. Can you write in some other language better than you can write in English? Or, are you merely not well informed about how to use the English language? With the English language you can dress somebody down, using only facts, or you can tell them a story. One can be blunt or friendly. Casual or proper. One can put on airs, assume a position of superiority and/or authority and talk down to people. One can be gentle or gruff. English is a beautiful language and will say almost anything one wants it to say. Give it a try. drifter.