Rose65
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I know we are older people here, parents and grandparents ourselves, perhaps divorced ourselves. Yet I get to thinking back over what has made me who I am and why I react as I do.
Are you a child of divorced parents and did one or both of them try to poison your mind against the other?
I was a pawn between mine. It was my mother who was totally embittered and took every opportunity to make dad seem totally at fault. All her life she spouted poison about him. But it didn't work because as I grew up I could tell it was certainly not all him. She was a nasty woman, he responded to that.
I loved him and she tried to stop that. It harmed us all as a family because she couldn't accept her own faults. She wanted to take his children away from him to keep hurting him.
People ought to be careful because helpless kids do grow up and realise the truth.
So was anyone here caught in the middle like that?
Are you a child of divorced parents and did one or both of them try to poison your mind against the other?
I was a pawn between mine. It was my mother who was totally embittered and took every opportunity to make dad seem totally at fault. All her life she spouted poison about him. But it didn't work because as I grew up I could tell it was certainly not all him. She was a nasty woman, he responded to that.
I loved him and she tried to stop that. It harmed us all as a family because she couldn't accept her own faults. She wanted to take his children away from him to keep hurting him.
People ought to be careful because helpless kids do grow up and realise the truth.
So was anyone here caught in the middle like that?