collective grief: have you broken down and cried over all the deaths so far?

I can't cry - multiple tragedies in a short space of time damaged me. What I experience is misting up and knots in my guts and over-whelming feelings of ... not sure what word would be right... but it is disturbing, painful - like I am bleeding for the world. I wish I could cry.
 

We can certainly grieve for the many lives taken far too soon, and also grieve for the loss of normality in our lives. It’s common to experience adjustment reactions during times such as these, as well as to experience anxiety. Stay in touch with your own feelings, for we all have them, and none of them are wrong in these unprecedented times...
 

I'm near tears every time I watch the news. And I did allow myself to cry once. Some of the stories are so heartbreaking...ironic even. Like the bus driver who complained on Facebook about a person coughing on his bus and not covering that cough. He died a week later. There have been nurses who risked their lives to go in with not enough protection and have died. Most recently I saw that a father on the front lines died on his twin daughters' 10th birthday. They will probably never have happy birthdays again. Here in N.J. we lost a firefighter, a beloved school principal, a doctor, a nurse and other dedicated people to this virus. The sad stories are overwhelming. I also saw last night that a doctor just broke down and cried in the midst of his shift. I pray for them all on the front lines and the families of those lost. 😢
 
More proud of how courageous the medical service people are. Super Heroes indeed.
Let me tell you, even if we are not on the front line...it is extremely scary going into work every day and not knowing if you're gonna get it because you were exposed to someone who has it but doesn't know. It's scary to wonder if things get bad if everyone will walk off the job and leave a bare bones crew to do it all. It's just a very bad situation/
 
What I don't get is this: The officials claim that if you wash your hands and don't touch your face, that you should be fine and that this isn't airborne. Yet they turn around and recommend masks because you COULD get it just breathing.

Marci, they're not recommending that we wear face coverings (as opposed to masks, which are for health-care workers and others out on the "front lines") in order to protect ourselves. They're recommending that we wear face coverings in order to keep from exposing other people to the water droplets of varying sizes produced when we talk, sneeze, even just exhale. Any one of us could be infected and not know it because (1) there's an incubation period between start of infection and start of symptoms, and (2) some infections are asymptomatic.

A negative test result doesn't guarantee that you're not infected, either. These tests entail a certain number of false negatives.

We owe it to our fellow human beings to help prevent the spread of the virus, especially to those in the categories of people most vulnerable to serious illness or death. That's why I'm wearing a face covering when I go out in public. It's not about ME: it's about WE.

As for whether it's airborne or not, it depends on how you define "airborne." My own perspective as a retired physician is that any illness that can be transmitted via minute water droplets hanging in the air is, in fact, airborne.
 
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My heart goes out to them all. However, I have not broken down and cried. I am still grieving my sister tragic death. Again. my heart goes out to all that has loss their life and their families. 😥
 
I saw an article this morning where an entire nursing home was infected 200+ residents and the staff abandoned them due to lack of PPE. Made me cry this morning. I just can't imagine walking away from people who need you. Especially if their on their death beds with no one there for them. To just leave them. Seems too cruel to me. My boss said there will always be those who walk away and those who step up. I want to be one of the ones that steps up. Someone has to be there to do the job.

It was more than the number I posted. I just went back and looked. Apologize for the error.
 
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I'm heartbroken for my daughter's dearest friend, who today has lost her husband to Covid-19..after being hospitalised for something totally unrelated a few weeks ago , and then catching pneumonia after infection set in on the place where he'd had his surgery , and ultimately succumbed while in hospital to Covid-19... an otherwise healthy man, has died just like that....like candle light be blown out .

My daughter is broken-hearted that she can't even go to her friend and comfort her...🥺😢...my normally very stoical, strong , calm, daughter says she was screaming into the mountains where she lives.. to no-one in particular .. . but after she heard of her friends' husbands' death she shouted at the top of her lungs..... quote ''I swear to God if my mum gets this and dies and I can't get to her I'll bloody kill you all!!!''... she said she had no idea who she was ranting to but sheer grief and the thought that she might never get to me if I got it and died while this lock-down is on.. has got her in utter despair...
 

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