I confess, I'm a rather plain person who really doesn't socialize that much. I find socializing is terrifying especially when others expect me to be something I'm not.
One of my former co-workers invited me to go to a wine tasting party. I told her I did not like wine but she insisted that there would surely be a wine I would like. She hadn't seen me for a while so I agreed to go. I wish our meeting would have been someplace other than a wine tasting event.
I'm not some kind of crazy prohibitionist. If other people enjoy partaking of wine then I'm not going to stop them. I should have been bolder with my "no".
The tables were rather high as well as the bar stools. I am not a tall person. I'm getting older. I have a bad knee. It was difficult to climb onto the bar stool. The fact that I was wearing a dress made that effort very stressful. Other people joined us, people she knew but who were strangers to me. I looked at their fancy clothes, their perfect makeup. Not a hair was out of place. There was so much seriousness. I supposed a wine joke might be out of place. I had nothing in common with these people.
I think it occurred to me that work was really the only thing we had in common. She's moved on to a different job and I'm retired. We really had nothing to talk about. It was uncomfortable. She seemed much more interested in impressing her other friends. I wondered why she invited me. Maybe it was to try and fix me up with her boyfriends well suited, rather uptight friend.
I hate blind dates.
Then came the wines. I've never been to a wine tasting before. I personally don't get the whole "let it breathe, swirl, hold it up to the light, sniff, taste. It was even worse when I was asked, "Can you taste the clove?" "Don't you think the hint of strawberry is refreshing?"
Personally I thought the entire bunch of wines had two flavors: some resembled a taste similar to the way sweaty gym socks smell. The others reminded me of either a skunk or wet dog hair.
I smiled and lied. "Oh yes, I hadn't noticed that flavor before but it really is incredible." They all smiled and nodded in agreement.
My only thought was I can't wait to get home so I can brush my teeth and get these horrific tastes out of my mouth.
They purchased a couple bottles of wine while I popped a peppermint flavored tic tac.
I made it home, put on my jeans and t shirt then cracked open a nice ice cold beer. There is something about beer that doesn't require the imposed snobbery that wine seemed to demand. I was alone with this perfect beverage that I didn't have to swirl , sniff or hold up to the light. It is a beverage made to be enjoyed right from the bottle...no fancy stemmed glass required. No fancy date required either.
One of my former co-workers invited me to go to a wine tasting party. I told her I did not like wine but she insisted that there would surely be a wine I would like. She hadn't seen me for a while so I agreed to go. I wish our meeting would have been someplace other than a wine tasting event.
I'm not some kind of crazy prohibitionist. If other people enjoy partaking of wine then I'm not going to stop them. I should have been bolder with my "no".
The tables were rather high as well as the bar stools. I am not a tall person. I'm getting older. I have a bad knee. It was difficult to climb onto the bar stool. The fact that I was wearing a dress made that effort very stressful. Other people joined us, people she knew but who were strangers to me. I looked at their fancy clothes, their perfect makeup. Not a hair was out of place. There was so much seriousness. I supposed a wine joke might be out of place. I had nothing in common with these people.
I think it occurred to me that work was really the only thing we had in common. She's moved on to a different job and I'm retired. We really had nothing to talk about. It was uncomfortable. She seemed much more interested in impressing her other friends. I wondered why she invited me. Maybe it was to try and fix me up with her boyfriends well suited, rather uptight friend.
I hate blind dates.
Then came the wines. I've never been to a wine tasting before. I personally don't get the whole "let it breathe, swirl, hold it up to the light, sniff, taste. It was even worse when I was asked, "Can you taste the clove?" "Don't you think the hint of strawberry is refreshing?"
Personally I thought the entire bunch of wines had two flavors: some resembled a taste similar to the way sweaty gym socks smell. The others reminded me of either a skunk or wet dog hair.
I smiled and lied. "Oh yes, I hadn't noticed that flavor before but it really is incredible." They all smiled and nodded in agreement.
My only thought was I can't wait to get home so I can brush my teeth and get these horrific tastes out of my mouth.
They purchased a couple bottles of wine while I popped a peppermint flavored tic tac.
I made it home, put on my jeans and t shirt then cracked open a nice ice cold beer. There is something about beer that doesn't require the imposed snobbery that wine seemed to demand. I was alone with this perfect beverage that I didn't have to swirl , sniff or hold up to the light. It is a beverage made to be enjoyed right from the bottle...no fancy stemmed glass required. No fancy date required either.