Cousin offered me a kitten

I have a dog that I absolutely love and she has a wonderful life with me. You're right when you say that an animal needs and deserves as much as a human. But I doubt I'll have another pet after her. They are a lot of love but also a lot of work and I think it would be too much for me when I'm older.
I have 3, 2 of them are here on the couch with me snugged up in their blankets. The 3rd, big dog (90#s) is at my feet. I do not know how I would function without them. Pretty much my only friends, I can talk with them all day, get hugs and kisses. I do worry about the future, it can be a lot of work caring for them, baths, nail trims, trips to the groomer for 2 of them. The big one (90#s) is a chow. So there is constantly hair to clean up and daily brushing. He belonged to a dear friend that died after a sudden heart attack. The dog knew me, my dogs, my home. I kept him when the friend traveled so it made sense for him to stay with me.

I hope my health will hold up, that I will be able to take care of them always. I would not say never. I will always have at least one dog. It I have to go into care at some point, there will be a dog going with me. I would not go to any home that does not allow pets. The assisted living where my Mom was is very pet friendly. There were many residents that had small dogs and cats. All of the residents enjoyed these pets so much!! It is possible to have a pet even as we get older, don't say never!
 

Never get a pet of any kind if you can't love it, spend time with it, get it medical care and medication as needed and be able to purchase food for it. An animal needs and deserves as much as a human. They are sometimes difficult to take care of, they can be expensive if they get sick, they can do damage to your home until they learn not to.

It seems to me that you are not ready to have a pet. I would never discourage anyone but as the owner of 3 dogs, house dogs, I know how much work and expense can be involved. Yet, I still find myself checking the shelters for a puppy! LOL
I know what you mean. I've had many cats over the years and most lived well into their teens, so I know what it takes to give them good care.
 

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