Dating Site Disasters Part lll, The Final Chapter :(

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Rindee1.jpg...and it continues....I posted this picture in one of the chatrooms of the most recent site I joined, then waited for the instant messages to arrive, and arrive they did! One after another...showering me, well better put, drowning me in compliments, enrapturing me with non-stop flirting, keep it comin', it's girlies dream right, yeah!
It's hard to keep up chatting with 5-10 or even 15 guys at the same time, all of them commanding my complete attention, but I can multi-task quite well being a veteran of dating chat sites/rooms, and often playing a game of chess at the same time :) It's all in good fun, right?
After all it clearly says in my profile "I am only here for chatting, communication, online friends and ONLINE fun, so it all begins and ends, here." Simple enough right? Not so. How many actually read the profile or bios?
Not many, they see me and immediately rush to be the first to capture me in a chat. Harmless flirting can turn into scary situations...and those are the messages left for me after the chats are over.
"I really like you. I really want to meet you. I am falling for you, and the worst of all, "I love you!" I put a halt to that kind of behavior immediately during the chats and direct them to read my bio, (which they obviously didn't), and ask them to please keep things in PERSPECTIVE (then again, how many of them know the definition of that word lol?).
Let's face it, the bigger % of guys who actually show real interest in me, have most likely not had success with women, or even fewer, are attracted to my kind. Either way, I am not interested in any of it, I just want to have fun, and that's all I ask of them too. But alas, it seems I cannot even do that without problems.
My entire romantic life has been a failure, and now, even a lonely senior like me cannot find fun and happiness in a chat site! How sad is that? So, that's the end of my Dating Site Disasters story, it all ends up meaning one thing...FAILURE! And to add a final note to that, I didn't even mention the many "college guys" who messaged me, telling me how much I reminded them of their mom, or grandmother, asking if they can call me "mom", and telling me I was the answer to their dreams wow!!
Yeah right. I'm sure they really were college guys LOL...pinch my nose and I will tap dance and sing Jingle Bells too lol! If I ever join another site, my profile will say this, "I am happily married to a handsome muscle hunk, and we have 10 kids." :( ....That's all folks! Rindee
 

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Vida May said:
I think the best way to meet people is to do the things we enjoy doing.
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Meeting people is easy yes, I have done so many times, been involved in music, sports, chess, you name it! But as we age, the group or groups people we used to socialize with becomes less and less...many have died, or have families now, and cannot socialize anymore for whatever reason, etc. Bottom line, as I wrote, I am not looking to meet anyone, I am just in it for fun, flirting, sharing pictures, videos, communication, and so on. And finally, as a transgender woman, I am in a completely different category. Does it matter? Yes, it does, take it from me, it does.
 
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Rindee said:
View attachment 392050...and it continues....I posted this picture in one of the chatrooms of the most recent site I joined, then waited for the instant messages to arrive, and arrive they did! One after another...showering me, well better put, drowning me in compliments, enrapturing me with non-stop flirting, keep it comin', it's girlies dream right, yeah!
It's hard to keep up chatting with 5-10 or even 15 guys at the same time, all of them commanding my complete attention, but I can multi-task quite well being a veteran of dating chat sites/rooms, and often playing a game of chess at the same time :) It's all in good fun, right?
After all it clearly says in my profile "I am only here for chatting, communication, online friends and ONLINE fun, so it all begins and ends, here." Simple enough right? Not so. How many actually read the profile or bios?
Not many, they see me and immediately rush to be the first to capture me in a chat. Harmless flirting can turn into scary situations...and those are the messages left for me after the chats are over.
"I really like you. I really want to meet you. I am falling for you, and the worst of all, "I love you!" I put a halt to that kind of behavior immediately during the chats and direct them to read my bio, (which they obviously didn't), and ask them to please keep things in PERSPECTIVE (then again, how many of them know the definition of that word lol?).
Let's face it, the bigger % of guys who actually show real interest in me, have most likely not had success with women, or even fewer, are attracted to my kind. Either way, I am not interested in any of it, I just want to have fun, and that's all I ask of them too. But alas, it seems I cannot even do that without problems.
My entire romantic life has been a failure, and now, even a lonely senior like me cannot find fun and happiness in a chat site! How sad is that? So, that's the end of my Dating Site Disasters story, it all ends up meaning one thing...FAILURE! And to add a final note to that, I didn't even mention the many "college guys" who messaged me, telling me how much I reminded them of their mom, or grandmother, asking if they can call me "mom", and telling me I was the answer to their dreams wow!!
Yeah right. I'm sure they really were college guys LOL...pinch my nose and I will tap dance and sing Jingle Bells too lol! If I ever join another site, my profile will say this, "I am happily married to a handsome muscle hunk, and we have 10 kids." :( ....That's all folks! Rindee
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better to say you are lesbian....oh nevermind ...that may attract women
show most men a black dress and a little leg ... so sad'

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Vida May said:
My daughter is a member of the Imperial Sovereign Court of the Emerald Empire. Check out their facebook page. It could lead to all the fun you are looking for and caring relationships that are sincere. I am very happy that my daughter found an organization she enjoys so much.

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Imperial Sovereign Court of the Emerald Empire
The Imperial Sovereign Court of the Emerald Empire (ISCEE) is a 501 (c) (4) non-profit LGBTQ Org
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Thank you so much for this info, and I am glad your daughter has found happiness on that site, that's wonderful! I once had Facebook, and all the other social media sites, but decided to quit them, for the same reasons I wrote about here. For me, it's been bad luck all around :(
 
OregonGuy said:
better to say you are lesbian....oh nevermind ...that may attract women
show most men a black dress and a little leg ... so sad'

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Oh, I have been mistaken as one, on more than one occasion, of course by those who never bothered to read my bio, which states clearly what I am lol! I am featured here in one of my famous plus size Cami Bodycon slip tank top mini-dresses, I own 5, all of them black lol! Takes me quite a while to get into it, but I like it to fit extra snug and show off my hard work in the gym! A guy I went out with said "you are not just trying to stop traffic with that dress, you are trying to stop all transportation, land, sea and sky." We went out only once, and that was it :(, must've been this dress? LOL :(
 
Lavinia said:
Simply being a white woman is enough to attract certain men whose sole interest is to get into the country by befriending a citizen.
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An interesting point! I have had many men from abroad, strike up chats with me, then begin complaining about their lives and lack of money... then begging me for money! I then end the chat abruptly!
 
It sounds like dating sites are not for you. I hope you can find another way of enjoying the way you want to chat to others.
 
Rae said:
It sounds like dating sites are not for you. I hope you can find another way of enjoying the way you want to chat to others., Thank you! Well the sites have different categories, not just dating. I select friends only chats, but no one keeps it at that level...they always try to get closer to me, meet me, call me etc. I can find a date anywhere easily,,,but I am not looking for that, at least online.
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Rindee said:
Thank you so much for this info, and I am glad your daughter has found happiness on that site, that's wonderful! I once had Facebook, and all the other social media sites, but decided to quit them, for the same reasons I wrote about here. For me, it's been bad luck all around :(
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The link is about a lot more than online activity. The organization does a lot of fundraising for charity. I think that is just an excuse to do their shows. They travel from Los Vegas to Seattle doing shows almost monthly. If my daughter isn't leaving town to do a show, she is doing a show in town. She does a lot of organizational work for the organization. These are really good people, very tolerant, accepting, and considerate, focusing on doing good for others.
 
Rindee said:
An interesting point! I have had many men from abroad, strike up chats with me, then begin complaining about their lives and lack of money... then begging me for money! I then end the chat abruptly!
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Oh yeah! In the news, a woman who had saved 2 million dollars for her retirement and lost it all because she wanted to believe the man she was communicating with really loved her. He conned her out of her money and he was a foreigner. There is no chance of her getting any of that money back.
 
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Oh yeah! In the news, a woman who had saved 2 million dollars for her retirement and lost it all because she wanted to believe the man she was communicating with really loved her. He conned her out of her money and he was a foreigner. There is no chance of her getting any of that money back.
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Sadly, that is a situation that happens quite often. Omg 2 million clams gone to some guy in another country. That is terrible! I have had many try to do that to me, but where money is concerned, greed is good, and I am one greeeeeedy girly lol!! :(
 
What I grew most tired of was those who could not keep things in perspective, just remain friends and communicate and have fun. It always turned into a mess! I tried so many sites, none ever worked for me. I am on a few chat sites , which for now are ok, a few guys have gotten out of line, but I am used to it. It can get scary, and I am now more hesitant to share my pictures or videos. They must wait a long time before they get that privilege! ;)
 
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