Nothing weird about that. After my husband died, a friend from school tried to make a connection. After a couple of lunches it became plain that because her husband's brother was hanging around their house too much after his wife died, she was looking to hook him up with me. Ya my husband died a few months ago. I should be ready to date again.
Then my daughter took her life. Former neighbor popped up wanting a friend to go out to lunch and farmer's markets. She tried to make a connection, but I was too traumatized to be there for her. I finally told her I would rather be left alone.