Defining moments

Ferocious

R.I.P. With Us In Spirit Only
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I'm sure, like me, many of you members have had a defining moment, or perhaps several in your lives.
My first one was passing my test for riding a motorcycle, which made it possible to visit places I'd only seen on a map. ☺

Do you want to share yours? 🙄
 

I was always bored in school. When I was in the 4th grade, I blurted out something really funny in class & all 30 students were ROFLOL. After that, they were all my friends & treated me like some kind of hero. I learned about the power of laughter at that moment.
I liked it so much, the teachers' complaints didn't change anything.
 
I was told, by my 6th Grade chum, Bobby, that the new kid in our class, Ronny, played guitar, and was actually good at it. Bobby knew I was trying to start a band, but my fellow classmates, whom I was friendly with, and trying to get into my band, were mostly tone deaf.

Bobby took me to Ronny's house, and Ronny took us upstairs to his room. When he played the first two chords on his guitar, and then went into a rock chord pattern, I was transfixed. My life would change, forever, as I knew it: I had found a guy to start a band with, at eleven years old. This was the single most profound experience I ever had, bar none, in my life. It was spiritual, it was transcendent.

Ronny and I went on to form and play in one of our neighborhood's most popular private party bands. I learned how to lead the band, write contracts for it, and play bass guitar. Up to that point, I was taking guitar lessons, when my dad actually showed up to take me, with a teacher who was terrible, for me.

Ronny and I played through freshman year, in high school. His family moved to the suburbs, after that, but we kept in contact. Our lead guitarist, Steve, went on to play with me, later, in college, as did our drummer, turned keyboardist, Rob.

Ronny was my Best Man, for my first marriage. My band, with Steve and Rob, played my reception.

When I got to Austin, I would form a band that I would play in for the next twenty years. That band made me my fortune, such as it is

Ronny and I talk on the phone, still, a few times a month. We see each other every so often, as he's now in Florida. We both worked for his dad's diamond business, selling on the road, out of college.

I can still see Ronny sitting on the edge of his bed, playing that Gibson electric. I still hear those chords, after more than fifty years. Magic..........
 
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Meeting Lorie 16 years ago changed my life 100 percent, always thought of myself first, and never really worried of others feelings. We were instantly best friends, and then came lovers, and now are everything together... and I believe I have become 100 percent a better person... and then seeing my Grandson for the very first time, and he's always such a happy little guy, and at 17 months, loves hanging out in the garage with me...
 
When I left home @ 16.
Went back to school ( adult high school ) to get the grades I needed to get into university.
Became a nutritionist.

Did oxvam walk every year for charity ( 30 miles )

Travelled across Canada on my first motorcycle 🏍
Bought a second one.

Lost a brother

Did a swim-a-thon for charity

Met my husband

Bought a lot of land and had our house built

Impressed my mom by singing in a concert
( and she’s never impressed )

Getting hit by a car on my bicycle

Getting hit by a truck in my car

Getting my cannabis growing licence

Traveling across Canada to see in in-laws 😳.. lol

Losing our blind diabetic dog

Fixing the back wall of our house ourselves

Getting my new saxophone 🎷

Helping my parents in their senior years
 
1. Rejecting religion and realising that we only have a short time to get things right without some mythical deity.
2. Meeting the girl who is still my wife after 46 years. She deserves a medal!
 


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