Did you ever have to tell an admirer to beat it?

[Kadee]

My daughter had problems with a man about 12 months ago ,she met him through her ( former ) next door neighbour,whom he was best mates with ..

She didn’t live with him but he would turn up day and night and become violent towards her to the extent she had to take out a restraining order against him ...which of course didnt work she was still being bothered by him as late as two weeks ago .

Then she phoned me a few days ago and said ..watch the news ....”Meggs” has been murdered by his his best mate ( my daughters former next door neighbour ) while on a camping trip about 3 hours from Adelaide where my daughter lives.

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[James]

Between marriages while I was dating my current wife I ran into an old High School acquaintance. We were never involved and as far as I was concerned there was no chemistry. Shortly after that she began calling (got my number from a friend of mine) This was back before cell phones or call display.

Calls started increasing from every few days to every couple of days to daily. My wife (girlfriend at the time) was aware of the calls and was there for some.

She was also becoming more flirtatious and personal. I shared this with my girlfriend as I was feeling kind of flattered. She became quite peeved.

My girlfriend occasionally stayed over and had a key to my place. A few days later I noticed that the calls had suddenly stopped. I mentioned to my girlfriend that she must've found another boyfriend. That's when she turned and looked at me and said, "yeah, I don't think you'll be hearing from her anymore". She never elaborated until a couple of weeks later when she told me she had answered the phone when I was at work and that she had a "discussion" with her. That was it.

Still to this day she hasn't given me any more details on the discussion and I'm probably better off not knowing to much anyway.

 

[applecruncher]

You're a funny guy Camper but be careful what you wish for.:laugh: He finally told her to leave him alone and I think she took the hint. She rushed him when he went to his mailbox with her cups running over if you know what I mean and he stopped her immediately and said he was warning her to leave him alone and not to come on his property again. She left in a huff but he said it worked. She doesn't look over at him or attempt to even make eye contact. Thanks to everyone for your ideas on this

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Ya can't be nice/polite to people like this, and one must be careful about accepting their overtures. They must be firmly shut down.

Aside from romantic/admirer situations.....I had a neighbor who became a pest. From the getgo I had a feeling in my gut she was trouble. I didn't want her friendship; wanted nothing to do with her. After several incidences with neighbors she and her clan finally moved away.