I have the same.
Some of these posts are making me really depressed!
Think Holly is the only one who is vaguely like me….only she’s tidier. I’m another cupboard shover,out of sight, out of mind.
The houses I really hate to visit are ones like a friend who used to live down the lane. She lived in a newly built bungalow, moved area now.
I was SO nervous of even sitting on the sofa in case (God forbid) I squashed a cushion, so I perched on the edge & used to nurse the cup of tea she gave me for fear of it leaving a mark on a surface. Not a sign of anything….anywhere. No newspaper, books, knitting….nothing.!!!
I was too ashamed to ask her round to my old cottage full of books, plants, pictures, squashy old sofas covered in throws because of the DOGS……heaven forbid she got a dog hair.
So no, I rarely declutter, the thought is enough