Do You Enjoy Flirting?

I have no clue about flirting. Don't do it and probably wouldn't recognize it in others. I do like friendly, spirited and considerate communication, be it a simple tip of the cap, a pleasant greeting at the supermarket or lively conversation at a coffee stop.
 
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yes...if its done within certain boundries..and that 2 people are comfortable with it and wish to continue..at a point where possiblely it can shared privately at agreement
 

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Compliments feel wonderful, to receive and to give. Flirting is a fun form of flirting. Sort of a compliment with a desired reaction. I have a friend who is rather plain and a little heavy. She was talking about here co-worker flirting with the guys and although she was complaining a little , it sounded like she was a little envious of the attention the other gal was getting. I told her that some gals like to chat up the guys but I have always admired the quieter you. It is harder for a guy to make the first move to a quiet girl. But you have a walk and a way of carrying yourself that is very sensual without being overdone. To a man looking for more than a quickie, You look like lover. So you may not get the attention of the boys but a man will know enough to desire you. But a little flirting can get his attention. We are friends and I have to smile when I noticed she is dressing just a little better and I think she practiced flirting with me and I did not mind.
Anyway I think flirting is fun but if you overdo it and make them think you are interested in more it can be hurtful when you have to stop it.
I think I have become the safe older guy because some of the younger gals in a couple of my groups flirt outrageously with me. If they do it in a sexual way I laugh and ask if their mother is single or something funny.
 
IMO flirting has too high a risk/reward ratio in today's world, just ask the governor of New York. ;)

When I was working we were asked to think about how comments would look in a court transcript or on 60 Minutes and IMO it's still a good test.
 
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Aunt Bea said:
IMO flirting has too high a risk/reward in today's world, just ask the governor of New York. ;)

When I was working we were asked to think about how comments would look in a court transcript or on 60 Minutes and IMO it's still a good test.
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I agree completely. I was always told not to say anything I wouldn't say to my own mother. I've tried to stick to that in both work and social situations.
 
Don't flirt, never have, never will.

If my memory serves me correct, the flirting game disappearing in the rear-view mirror towards the end of junior-high.

The men I have known in the past that flirted were pigs and lacked any/all class, and the women that followed were tramps.
 
it all depends on the degrees one flirts..as there are different ways to flirt...from being enjoyable and fun...to the negative side where it passes flirting into something else
 
uriaty said:
it all depends on the degrees one flirts..as there are different ways to flirt...from being enjoyable and fun...to the negative side where it passes flirting into something else
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Speaking for myself, I'd rather be around real people, not some come-on or put-on type, and as for those who flirt with the married, I won't say what I think of that, at least not here.
 
Aunt Bea said:
IMO flirting has too high a risk/reward ratio in today's world, just ask the governor of New York. ;)

When I was working we were asked to think about how comments would look in a court transcript or on 60 Minutes and IMO it's still a good test.
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So right, Aunt Bea. And certainly should never happen with a co-worker, unless the attraction for both is real.
 
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