The problem with most people is that no one is really clear as to what the "rules" are. Lots of the advice we get is so vague and nondescriptive that they might as well be saying nothing at all. Examples:
1. "Wear a mask." OK, that's clear in some circumstances. When indoors with other people, of course. That part is easy. When in a medical facility, the barber or hairdresser, sure. Kids in those schools that are still open, definitely. But...
What about when you are going for a walk outside, with no one else around? The mask is below your nose? So what? I wear a mask when going out, I'm required to while in the public areas of my building, such as the elevators or lobby. But what about when I get outside, all by myself, with no other people around? Why not put the mask down below my nose (or chin) in that case?
What if you are walking alone outside, but other people do appear? How close do they have to get before you are supposed to put the mask back up?
What about when meeting with a very small group, say up to 4 people total, for an indoor visit? And you are served food? It is possible, I suppose, to eat while leaving the mask on, but would you want to?
2. Stay home as much as possible. OK, but awfully general.
Win, what is your source for suggesting that anyone has said that leaving your house for any reason is breaking the rules? I have never seen or heard of such a rule. If it was, the rules about mask wearing would be meaningless. Stores could not legally be open, not even grocery stores.
What we need is more clarification about what my English teacher used to call "glittering generalities." Starting with: What is a "rule?" To me, a lot of them sound more like suggestions than actual rules. But having a wedding for 500 guests is clearly violating something. (And BTW, do those same numbers about crowd size apply to outdoor activities as well? Well, at least it's winter now, in this part of the world.) And the mask rules in stores are really rules, I suppose. Has anyone actually been forced by security to leave because they refuse to put a mask on? I don't know.
And so it goes. There is so much confusion, so many varying definitions about all of it, that no one is really clear about what to do, at least not in this country. Maybe the rules are made clearer elsewhere.