Husband played football and he was built like Magilla Gorilla. Nobody in their right mind would make fun of him to his face.
This was in the 70's. Finally in the 90's he started wearing pink and brighter colors. He was appalled the first time I bought him colored underwear. And just who will be seeing you in this underwear besides me.
My poor conservative husband got matched with a wife who would wear a purple suit with an orange blouse.
I'm not a big guy. I played baseball

.
Actually, I was a very good ballplayer. I had a pretty decent chance at moving on to MLB if I'd made better decisions.
But anyway, I was raised on a farm and went to school with farm boys, and we all worked from the time we could pick something up and carry it a ways. We all said Yes, sir, and Yes, ma'am when we were around grown-ups, beat the crap out of each other for recreation when we weren't (but never hit a girl no matter how hard they hit a boy), and only girls wore pink and all the boys wore blue denim except on Sunday.
(I dressed nice on Saturday, too, when I observed Shabbat with my mom.)
Anyhow, that was until my dad bought a house in a part sub-rural, part suburban part of a census-designated part of the Sacramento metropolitan area in 1969, where I attended my last 2 years of high-school with about an equal number of hippies and flower-girls and their counterparts, football-players and cheerleaders, and where former farm kids and their subset group, fans of country-music, made up a minority of the student body.
The hippies were all about peace and love, right? So they'd stand there in their floral shirts and tie-dyed tees and try to right your wrong thinking with words, but the preppy, football-playing Ivy League hopefulls only knew physicality as the means to achieve a goal.
Again, I was not a big guy, but like most boys who worked on a farm for the better part of his childhood, there was significant strength and muscle beneath my blue outer / white under cottons. And my cottons stayed blue and white until I graduated.
To this day, I don't wear bright colors except for red, and my wardrobe is still mainly blue. But I got over the
pink is only for girls concept long ago, when my kids were tots. And that had nothing to do with my childhood or my high-school experience, it had to do with letting my kids, 2 sons and a daughter, pick out their own clothes whenever we went shopping. Whatever they liked, as long as it was appropriate for its purpose, I was fine with it.