Donations At Christmas

911

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I have been out and about doing a little personal Christmas shopping on my own, which consists mostly of gift cards. After about an hour of driving around to the different restaurants, it dawned on me that I didn’t see any bell ringers, not even at Walmart. I think a lot of people are annoyed with them, so they don’t miss them, but I like them. They remind me of Christmas’s past when my dad would dump a bag of change into the kettle just to get a reaction from the person doing the ringing. My dad would make sure he was noticed by asking the bell ringer if they minded if he would dump his bag of change. My mom would tell dad his narcissism is showing.

My wife and I donate at Christmas and that’s it, except I am a dope for some of the people that stand on the corner looking for a handout. We give to the Ukraine and Russian Jews, Habitat for Humanity, SPCA (local branch) and T2T. We would like to give more and will just as soon as we hit a big lottery ticket winner. (Like that’s ever going to happen.)

A few years ago, we received a note back written in some kind of language we couldn’t read, so I took it to the local Synagogue and asked the Rabbi what it said. He didn’t know. My next stop was the Russian Orthodox Church in Harrisburg and spoke with the Rabbi, but I don’t think they are called Rabbi because this man kind of laughed when I called him that. He could read only a few words, one word was “thank” and then two words read “good food.”

I want to add that you are allowed to add your name and address on a small card they will put inside the food box, but I advise against doing that. You may end up receiving a countless number of requests for donations. We have a personal PO Box that we use for our return address when we don’t want it printed and can stipulate “No ads or circulars.” BTW, you can send a food box for $25 each. When that commercial comes on TV showing the Jewish women and the food boxes, she all but cries for them. I think that’s the effect they wanted to happen.
 

Those bells hurt my ears. I only saw them downtown this year. You are kind to donate.

I mainly only donate to anything with animals. A Northern California Raptor rescue I learned about with the bald eagle cam. I may send a small donation to a cat rescue organization.
 
I drop money in the firefighter boots. Every year at Christmas, our local firefighters walk up and down at certain intersections holding out their iconic firefighter boots. I also buy a few toys to put in a Toys for Tots barrel, and the Blue Santa box, too, if I see one. I also take bags of stuff like food, socks, toothbrushes, toothpaste, and water to a couple of homeless camps I'm familiar with. I do that almost every month, but at Christmas I'll add tins of cookies or bags of candy...a li'l something extra.
 

No lack of bell ringers here. Everywhere we go, there are two people ringing per kettle.

Our local grocery store has drums set inside the exit door for donations to the local SPCA and folks have really been filling them up with all kinds of pet foods, treats and toys.
 
No lack of bell ringers here. Everywhere we go, there are two people ringing per kettle.

Our local grocery store has drums set inside the exit door for donations to the local SPCA and folks have really been filling them up with all kinds of pet foods, treats and toys.
Only a few places here still have bell-ringers after some violent robberies happened.

Punks beating holy crap out of Santa for a little bucket of change meant to help feed poor families at Christmas time. I mean, there are worse things, but this one is definitely in the top 5.
 
The set up for bell ringers has changed this year. The kettle is still in the foyers of stores. Because tap for CC or DC is so common, there’s a setup to allow someone to tap one of three amounts. I’ve never seen anyone tapping it. Sometimes a person will be sitting ringing the bells. I don’t know if actual cash can be given. I’ll look the next time I see it. I’m sure the presence of someone beside it make people donate because of perceived embarrassment.

adding: the donations to the kettles are way down this year.
 
No lack of bell ringers here. Everywhere we go, there are two people ringing per kettle.

Our local grocery store has drums set inside the exit door for donations to the local SPCA and folks have really been filling them up with all kinds of pet foods, treats and toys.
Thanks for awakening a memory. One year near Christmas, mom and I were leaving the store and I saw someone had tossed in 3 cans of Alpo.

I started laughing (I was a kid) "That's a mean, but funny joke" my mother asked me why I was laughing.

After I told her, she said "Poor people have pets also" I realized that this wasn't an insult or joke, some people saw further like my mother.

When I donate, it's to shelters (human & animal) and usually it's usually toiletries.
 
Only a few places here still have bell-ringers after some violent robberies happened.

Punks beating holy crap out of Santa for a little bucket of change meant to help feed poor families at Christmas time. I mean, there are worse things, but this one is definitely in the top 5.
Yeah, did a web search, good God, dozens of reports. Many in my city. Stealing I can deal with, but beating someone who isn't going to fight you is beyond tolerable.
 
I can’t remember seeing any ringers around here. Maybe a lack of volunteers. I still donate not only at Christmas, but monthly to St. Jude and T2T as well. I also give to WWP, despite what people write about them. I have had a few friends receive help from them. One friend was given a new frame for the back of his SUV to carry his electric mobility scooter. Another Marine that I knew was given up to 50 hours of speech therapy, which really helped him to speak more understandable.
 
They are having a hard time to get bell ringers here I saw on the news.

I'm wary of some seeking donations because I don't know how legitimate they are. Some suck up a good portion of donations in salaries.

I donate to St. Jude's Children's Hospital because I know they are who they say they are. I saw on TV that they were in Ukraine also arranging care for sick children displaced by the war.
 
We have a bell ringer at Walmart. It is not the type of neighborhood to have violent crime so I guess they feel safe. I didn't have any cash on me but he told me about just tapping my CC card and that appeared to work. I guess I should check my CC statement to make sure it did.
 
I don't see the charge on my CC bill, I guess I will have to carry cash to donate. I wasn't sure my card was tap-able.
 
911 said, "I am a dope for some of the people that stand on the corner looking for a handout. ". Years ago, I lived in Rego Park, NYC, which was a predominantly Jewish area. I think it was during the "6 day War"(?) when they were collecting for the war. At the subway entrance, there were obviously Jewish religious men with big buckets. And people were throwing $20s, 50s 100s into the bucket. One night I came out of the subway, and there were two Black kids holding out a bucket, with a sign on it, "For the Jews". And people were throwing cash into it. You had to see the expression on the kids' faces, like life was just wonderful. Nobody questioned those kids?
 
I don't see the charge on my CC bill, I guess I will have to carry cash to donate. I wasn't sure my card was tap-able.
Credit card payments can take a couple of days to show up.

I "donate" to no-paywall, no-advertising services that solicit donations from users. For example, The Guardian, because I do their crosswords online.

It was a hard decision, but I don't feel I can afford to give money to others.
 
Recently, one of my "Neighbors" here got a call "Want a free trailer?" Sure it's old, but I'm stunned it's still perfectly sealed still. I saw the inside and pretty basic, still it could have easily gone for $1,000 someone was very generous !!
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