Old Dummy
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Hi: I know there is no "silver bullet" answer to this -- or any other color bullet for that matter. The problem for me is: Who to lay the burden on of being health care proxy, power of attorney, and executor when you have no kids? (who would be the obvious first choice).
This has been churning away in my mind for years. I have talked about this with my doctor, two different estate attorneys, and every friend I have. I am currently supposed to be filling out all the papers that the second attorney sent me a few weeks ago, but I haven't touched them. I can think of a million things I'd rather do.
It's complicated. I have two older sisters and between them they have three kids who are all in their 40s and 50s. One niece stands out as the obvious choice but I really don't want to lay all this on her.
There are, apparently, fiduciaries who will do this. Does anyone here have any experience with them?
I have this obsession that this is a real burden to ask anyone to do, and I don't want to do that to my niece. Some of my friends said it wouldn't necessarily feel like a burden to someone, and that my niece might be glad to do it. I've told my sister all this, she asked my niece -- who said she would. But she would say that anyway. I'm her only living uncle.
Comments?
This has been churning away in my mind for years. I have talked about this with my doctor, two different estate attorneys, and every friend I have. I am currently supposed to be filling out all the papers that the second attorney sent me a few weeks ago, but I haven't touched them. I can think of a million things I'd rather do.
It's complicated. I have two older sisters and between them they have three kids who are all in their 40s and 50s. One niece stands out as the obvious choice but I really don't want to lay all this on her.
There are, apparently, fiduciaries who will do this. Does anyone here have any experience with them?
I have this obsession that this is a real burden to ask anyone to do, and I don't want to do that to my niece. Some of my friends said it wouldn't necessarily feel like a burden to someone, and that my niece might be glad to do it. I've told my sister all this, she asked my niece -- who said she would. But she would say that anyway. I'm her only living uncle.
Comments?