Alrighty, my wordy self will share since my chores are all caught up now.

I noticed one day my deceased Grandmother was on my mind no matter what I did, days and days. I was washing dishes and for some reason I left 2 glasses to wash last, as I am washing them I mentally heard my Grandma in my head say " Sharon, you know I taught you better than that!" In other words always wash drinking vessels first before grease is in the water.
In my head I answered her "You are right, I have no idea why I did that". That was when I said enough, I need to understand why I am doing this.
I remembered the name of the psychic that impressed me with my Mom, so I made an appointment to see him. I sat down and he said, you have someone with you, I had not told him yet why I made the appointment. I asked him who and he described my grandma to a tee. Small lady, darker skinned than I am, very teeny, big smile, He asked if I knew anyone like that. I only knew ONE, my grandma.
I told him yes, and who. He then says "She has been trying to contact you but not for herself, she has someone else with her, who you have been brushing aside in your thoughts, I can see him, it's a male, medium height, weight is portioned, slightly balding and dare I say a prominent nose. He is family but not family if that makes sense"
That's when tears burst out, I knew right off because she dearly loved him, I could only nod.
Please remember I have not been talking, only he to me.
He closed his eyes and asked... "Do you have children with this man, is this a husband?" OK I am sobbing by then, nodding.
He says, "let me see if I can understand what he wants you to know" I don't know how long he sat there eyes closed before he says
"You have 2 sons together, one he says is solid as a rock the other he says is sort of .... out there at times, if that makes sense to you?"
It sure did and I started laughing, I nodded again" He continues, "He is telling me that he wants the son who just had a child that he is proud of him and know that he was there for the birth"
My son became a daddy just 3 months prior.
When his dad became very ill, he was so angry at the world for losing his dad and to see him wither from a healthy vital 47 year old man to the skeleton figure that he became. He had a very hard time with his dad's death. So I knew he withdrew from any talk about his dad all this time, so yes he probably would block any thought of his dad out of his memory.
Mr Greene then added "He says , please tell him I love him and am very proud of the man he has become"
Mr Greene was a medium not a tarot reader, not an aura reader.
After that meeting Grandma and Carl enter my thoughts here and there, as it should be. I am not consumed with them any more.
I have not since seen any other psychic nor thought about going to any.
The opportunity was there when I needed it, it helped me and you should have seen my sons when I told them.. that son having the hard time... cried for the 1st time since his dad died and now speaks and brings up memories, he has even been to his dad's grave a few times to have chats when he needs to.
I don't believe in all psychics or even all readings. I know I was lucky to have seen this man and how his name stuck in my head.
I only believe in one psychic and I hope you can see why... he did not prompt me for details and knew so much.