Ever heard of: "Think before you speak"?

It is an all too common problem.
Some just like to hear themselves talking.
Lot of truth to that.

I have to admit to being guilty of this from time to time, hopefully not too often.
"If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all"
Words to live by, if we only could.
"If you can't think of anything nice to say, come sit here beside me." - Alice Roosevelt Longworth
Now listening is another thing altogether! Alice was a very interesting character... embarrassed her father no end.
 
A phenomenon I notice much more than whether folks think before they speak, is an army of folks thinking they know just how everyone else should live their lives in all circumstances! :(
I agree
i feel surrounded by folks who assume their is only one way to do things and assume everyone is living the exact same way as they are.

Twitter and social media really exposed those who NEVER think before speaking.....
 
I know myself to be abrupt, my tact can be in short supply, but I will not belittle someone or laugh at a person’s looks …I put an effort in seeing the other side of each story and not be argumentative….people on here have been mostly easy to converse back and forth with…
 
People that dont think ahead, are often tactless , but dont really mean…😳🥱
im often thinking to myself……”what has that person got in between their ears “ 🤔
it cant be a “brain “ surely ……🤣
 
I know myself to be abrupt, my tact can be in short supply, but I will not belittle someone or laugh at a person’s looks …I put an effort in seeing the other side of each story and not be argumentative….people on here have been mostly easy to converse back and forth with…
My neighbour sounds abit like you lol…..and shes a lovely lady snow,
but admits herself , that she can be slightly gobby lol……and it gets her into trouble ,
 
People that dont think ahead, are often tactless , but dont really mean…😳🥱
im often thinking to myself……”what has that person got in between their ears “ 🤔
it cant be a “brain “ surely ……🤣
Yikes..I reread my note and wonder…you hinting at me? Surely not..
 
My neighbour sounds abit like you lol…..and shes a lovely lady snow,
but admits herself , that she can be slightly gobby lol……and it gets her into trouble ,
I have no idea what “gobby” means..but I assure you I have a fully functional brain between my ears…I did say something about belittling…
 
My neighbour sounds abit like you lol…..and shes a lovely lady snow,
but admits herself , that she can be slightly gobby lol……and it gets her into trouble ,
I read up on Gobby…loud mouthed..opinionated…etc thanks much…anything else you would like to add?
 
I read up on Gobby…loud mouthed..opinionated…etc thanks much…anything else you would like to add?
I was not quoting you and my neighbour about “nothing between your ears “ it was just saying the phrase gobby…meaning “saying what you think “…..
nothing personal snow ……..calm down lol
 

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