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The problem for me, 911, is my late husband, who was a Federal Marshal, told me that shooting someone is not like you watch on T.V. If you aim a gun at someone, be prepared to follow through and kill him. He had killed 11 men during his life. (Law enforcement and war) It's blood and guts flying everywhere. I have a Colt s/a but could I ever shoot anyone? actually kill some human being? I could give my life to uphold freedom but to kill someone? I couldn't. I hope this does not come to the point where this is a decision I have to make.
Sage advice, a US Marshall is a thankless job...sorry for your loss.
I'll tell a little story about a friend of mine.
First a little background, we have a very solid Castle Doctrine Statute in my state, the current AG was my son's college roommate and is staunch about standing by the current law.
Now the story....
She is in her mid 60's, lives alone in a not so great section of town. A little naive about some things but has a CCW and several handguns.
Her house was burgled one day while she was gone, her guns were stolen along with her late mother's car and some jewelry.
After the detectives dusted for prints and looked over the entry point, they promised to follow up with some extra patrols.
She stayed in the house against the wishes of several of us, I was begging her not stay until she had her alarm system hooked back up and had someone stay with her for a few days. She was shaken up by the experience but confident that she could handle it. This is her late mother's house, the trees and bushes around the house had not been cut back in years.
The next night they tried to break in again with her inside the house unarmed.....at 1:30 AM.
She was screaming at them while on the 911 call. If she had not had solid doors that were well bolted they would have gotten in and no telling what might have happened. It was a male and a female drug addict that had been walking up and down the street (there is a shabby trailer park just up the road from her) to check her movements the first break in.
But they had actually hidden in a room that was separate from the house that had walk across upstairs access to her bedroom of all places.
This is an excellent example of how to avoid a bad outcome, be smart about how your home is protected. Had she shot them she would not have been prosecuted, but had to live with her actions the rest of her life. They caught both of them, long rap sheets, they ruined her car, it was permeated with the smell of meth.
I firmly believe in living a low key lifestyle and harden my house from the inside, solid doors, double bolts, a door jamb for the front door and an escape route. No garage doors left open to draw attention.
Being aware sounds paranoid to some but it's smart preparation that keeps people safe.