Kaila
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The other link only turned up people that were looking to work as an in-home heath care aide.
I just discovered this thread, and read the entire thing, and I am very upset for you, Deb.
It's such a difficult and scary situation.
I wonder if you could find someone like those who do their own in-home health aide work, or someone independent, who would accept payment, for what you will actually need.
It seems like you'd need to pay them a lot more than for a half day.
You need to stay in the area of the surgery, and be taken back to the surgeon, the following day, and for however many rechecks, before you can go home. You will not want your car there, as you will not be able to drive home, even after staying in that area overnight.
An assistant will require a big salary, but you will lose your sight, otherwise.
Very sorry you are in this situation.