ronk
Member
Awhile ago I decided to sit at a different table of friends for lunch. I was upset that two of the women at my former table had severe issues with memory loss.
Unfortunately I hurt the feelings of another woman at that table. She really missed me. Eventually she got extremely upset and depressed. It took me awhile to understand what she was going through. I had been missing some lunch days because of some outstanding health concerns. Then I heard she had stopped coming down for lunch. I did not like the fact that I had inadvertently hurt her feelings. She is a wonderful woman, and 100 years old.
Today I got lucky. I saw her in the lobby, and asked if she was going in to eat lunch with us. I sat with her at the table today. I told her I'd sit with her on Saturday, when she eats in the dining room again. It's great to see her happy again. I really missed her.
Unfortunately I hurt the feelings of another woman at that table. She really missed me. Eventually she got extremely upset and depressed. It took me awhile to understand what she was going through. I had been missing some lunch days because of some outstanding health concerns. Then I heard she had stopped coming down for lunch. I did not like the fact that I had inadvertently hurt her feelings. She is a wonderful woman, and 100 years old.
Today I got lucky. I saw her in the lobby, and asked if she was going in to eat lunch with us. I sat with her at the table today. I told her I'd sit with her on Saturday, when she eats in the dining room again. It's great to see her happy again. I really missed her.
