Yep, there's no fool like an old fool, so they say. I always said I wasn't going to be one of those widows who jump into a relationship without due diligence first, but sure 'nuff, there I was.
I got into a serious relationship a couple of months after I started dating again with a guy who said all the right things and was apparently allergic to the truth.
Luckily, I met one later who wasn't a liar and we went into our relationship with everything out in the open. We're celebrating our 10th year of unwedded bliss this month.