Fraud or deception in UK family courts

grahamg

Old codger
I am starting this thread because the father's rights groups I've been involved in advise men/fathers going through cases in the family courts where there are abuse allegations to admit to those allegations, even when they are completely unfounded, "IF" having done so the courts, (and/or the court welfare officers), will then permit contact between them and their children of any kind, (that those same authorities wont permit if the father refuses to admit guilt, if you see what I mean?).

However, in trying to research the topic I came across some other examples of deception or fraud occurring in our UK family courts, and the way the judges and legal system choose to treat those involved:

Quote:
"...., previous decisions of the court appeared to have established an idea that the tort of deceit did not exist between married couples. This was explained back in 2001 as follows:

“…it is not discriminatory for the procedures and remedies available to unmarried couples within this court to differ from those available to married couples by reason of the remedies available to the parties in matrimonial proceedings.”

Fast-forward to 2019 and the High Court was faced with the issue of paternity fraud in FRB v DCA. In this case, the parties were married in 2003 and their child, C, was born several years later. The parties separated in 2017. In 2018, C was subject to a DNA test and this confirmed that the husband was not the father of C.

The husband threatened to invoke “conduct” in the financial proceedings between the parties and also made a claim in the tort of deceit. He submitted that through the wife’s deceit and misrepresentations he had suffered loss and damage. The court dealing with the husband’s claim of deceit was decidedly unimpressed, describing it as, “pointless and futile litigation.”

The husband threatened to invoke “conduct” in the financial proceedings between the parties and also made a claim in the tort of deceit. He submitted that through the wife’s deceit and misrepresentations he had suffered loss and damage. The court dealing with the husband’s claim of deceit was decidedly unimpressed, describing it as, “pointless and futile litigation.”

The husband’s claim of deceit was considered further by Mr Justice Cohen in the Family Division of the High Court. After careful deliberation, he came to the conclusion that the tort of deceit could exist between married couples:

“I can see no logical reason why the law should encourage honesty between unmarried couples so as to create an obligation which if breached opens the wrongdoer to an action to deceit yet absolves from such liability a wrongdoing spouse. It seems to me contrary to public policy that the law should be so interpreted.”

However, Mr Justice Cohen refused to allow the claim of deceit to proceed any further. He took the view that the claim posed an ‘improper attack’ on the ability of the court to resolve financial matters between the parties within matrimonial proceedings. The wife’s conduct would be fully considered within the matrimonial proceedings and it would be disproportionate for the court to consider the issue beyond that sphere. In reaching this decision the Judge was no doubt influenced by the fact that the parties had already incurred astronomical legal costs, estimated at around £3m in total.

Whether the wife’s ‘paternity fraud’ will be seen as conduct that the court cannot ignore within the matrimonial proceedings remains to be seen. The threshold for ‘conduct cases’ remains a high one, so the husband in FRB v DCA may end up disappointed."
 

No one will enjoy reading this I'm sure, and it is from ten years ago or so, and about the worst case provided on a legal professional's website. It should make folks think about our UK family laws, and wish to change something, though in my opinion it will not do so, even though judge seems to have done his best to highlight inadequacies as he sees them, (as you will see):
http://www.pinktape.co.uk/courts/cafcass-chief-exec-subjected-to-very-cross-examination/

Article by Judge Carron quoted:
"In a slightly maverick move District Judge Carron has enlisted the support of the media in trying to right the injustices caused by the failure of CAFCASS to keep up with demand for their services. The resulting article can be found in The Times newspaper

Oh, you can raise an eyebrow at the notion of a Judge calling up the press before grilling the head honcho of the statutory body responsible for court reporting, but actually our collective brows should be raised in the direction of the extraordinary delays in allocationa nd reporting that are endemic at CAFCASS. What else is a poor champion of justice to do where orders of the court have failed, but to draft in the media? I feel for Anthony Douglass but he appears able to hold his own and appears always willing to provide photographs and quotes for anything remotely related to family justice. (Break)

So yes this is an unusual step for a District Judge to take (I have seen head honchos summonsed and grilled by judges before but never after an invitation to the media to watch the spectacle). And although it is not telling those of us who work in the system anything new, it IS right that systemic failures that are having such a fundamental impact on families and children should be brought to wider public attention somehow. Without this kind of judicial proactivity this issue would have been highly unlikely to have been aired."

Anon quote:
"Hi I have read some of these horrific stories and thought I should share mine.

My ex split up in 2009, for 5 months contact was great then the nastiness started, contact stopped with my daughters in Nov 2009 I was not allowed to see them call them or even look at them as my ex had lied to police and had an harassment warning put on me, in jan 2010 we went to court and Cafcass were called in to help.
My ex refused all contact including phone contact and Cafcass backed her bearing in mind for the last two years i was the children's sole carer as my ex owned her own business, my ex then took it upon herself to move the children to another school and area to live without my knowledge. This was immediately after I gave her our home so the girls would suffer as minimum as possible, within a week the home was rented out and I only found out they were moving because the school had wished them luck at their new school in the girls school report. Yet again Cafcass backed her up despite me refusing to agree to them leaving their current school , my ex has not allowed my family to see the children for 18 months now as the Cafcass officer has told her to keep the children away from my family Cafcass denies this but i have an e mail quoting this.

I have seen my daughters in a contact centre 7 times now in 14 months and my ex is trying to keep it there when i approached Cafcass and said i cant afford the contact centre anymore as it is £54 an hour she replied well you wont see your children then and put the phone down onme i had witnesses to this as i had the call on loud speaker.

On one of my visits to the contact centre I was pulled to one side by the Cafcass officer and told that the girls had been very naughty and that something had happened with the girls and the mother, the Cafcass officer told my daughters that they must not tell me what has happened.
I also have recordings of my daughters saying that the new boyfriend had locked them in their bedrooms when i had turned up to see them back in 2009 and had broken the mobile phone i brought her because she had tried to call me ( i have the broken phone as my distressed daughter got it out of the bin and brought it round to me ), i played the recording to the cafcass officer and she turned it on me saying i had inappropriately asked questions even though my daughter spoke for nearly two minutes without interruption.

At present I have no way of contacting my children i have no address to write to and have received nothing from the new school ie photo’s or reports, this particular Cafcass officer has been struck off by Cafcass before but taken back due to a mass exodus at the company. this is a blatant case of parent alienation which is a form of child abuse but Cafcass allow it to happen as it makes their life easier to just damn one parent and give the other residency.
My new fiancee and I are now writing to the local mp in parliament and are awaiting a response for help or guidance in this case i can only hope as this case has cost me £22.000.00 in court fees to get justice for my beautiful daughters and i have now run out of funds so need a good outcome in court in Feb 2011,

I would like to wish good luck to any of you going through this nightmare if your a mum or dad suffering this or if your just a spiteful parent researching how to hurt your child's other parent please think before you start children have the god given right to see both parents an their families all you will do is cause irreparable damage to kids and make the solicitors, barristers and judges wealthier to carry on hurting these precious commodities that we have been so very lucky to have."
 

I cant access this fathers rights site without registering with them, but they are one of the groups I used to march around London with about fifteen or twenty years ago, (when they were most active).

I'll come back if I find the website where they advise fathers to admit to abusing their children so long as it satisfies the CAFCASS officers, and they then get to see their children, but for now this is all I can find:
https://www.fathers-4-justice.org/our-campaign/fathers-rights-help-advice-support/

And this one:
https://www.fathers-4-justice.org/about-f4j/fact-sheet/
 
I cant access this fathers rights site without registering with them, but they are one of the groups I used to march around London with about fifteen or twenty years ago, (when they were most active).

I'll come back if I find the website where they advise fathers to admit to abusing their children so long as it satisfies the CAFCASS officers, and they then get to see their children, but for now this is all I can find:
https://www.fathers-4-justice.org/our-campaign/fathers-rights-help-advice-support/

And this one:
https://www.fathers-4-justice.org/about-f4j/fact-sheet/
Re: the second link (fact sheet):
One paragraph in the second section says "The 1989 Children Act abolished “The rule of law that a father is the natural guardian of his legitimate child."

What was "the rule of law" they mention based on?
 
Re: the second link (fact sheet):
One paragraph in the second section says "The 1989 Children Act abolished “The rule of law that a father is the natural guardian of his legitimate child."
What was "the rule of law" they mention based on?
Hard for me to answer you with too much confidence, not least because, though I marched with "Fathers 4 Justice" I never actually joined the group, and when I managed to read their manifesto I felt they went too far in what they were calling for in relation to changes to UK family law. They were effectively calling for the creating "two mothers", in the sense both had to cover the same care giver role, rather than one parent, usually the mother, being the custodial parent, (and the other having visitation rights protected).

Maybe my answer does give a slight indication where the "rule of law" emanated from, ie. doing away with one parent being assigned the role of guardian,(the father they said), but allowing the other parent, the mother most likely of course, to be the custodial, or resident parent(?).
 
When deciding custody of the children in divorce, is religion a factor? I would have left my husband sooner but he said that I would not get the children because I was not a Catholic. I don't know if he was correct, but it was on record that he left my son bruised after hitting him. I'm wondering now if I made a mistake by waiting until the children were older, before leaving him.
 
When deciding custody of the children in divorce, is religion a factor? I would have left my husband sooner but he said that I would not get the children because I was not a Catholic. I don't know if he was correct, but it was on record that he left my son bruised after hitting him. I'm wondering now if I made a mistake by waiting until the children were older, before leaving him.
I've come across a most difficult case where you'd have to suggest religion was a factor, and a most wonderful lady called Penny Cross lost contact with all four of her children completely, including a set of twins, and a more dreadful outcome than even this went on to develop concerning her eldest son aged twenty one.

The reason I can mention Penny by name is that she wrote a book called "Lost Children" in which she mentions just how difficult things turned out, including tragically concerning the eldest boy, who she didn't know had died until two weeks after his funeral, (and there were even more troubling aspects I'll hold back).

However Penny wrote her book, and set up a self help group for mothers excluded from their children called Mothers Apart from THeir CHildren, (or MATCH for short). The intellect shown by the woman, going through all her difficulties, and yet able to assess legal matters, and comments by those experts highlighting weaknesses in the way our family courts and laws operate etc., was quite astounding
 
Hard for me to answer you with too much confidence, not least because, though I marched with "Fathers 4 Justice" I never actually joined the group, and when I managed to read their manifesto I felt they went too far in what they were calling for in relation to changes to UK family law. They were effectively calling for the creating "two mothers", in the sense both had to cover the same care giver role, rather than one parent, usually the mother, being the custodial parent, (and the other having visitation rights protected).

Maybe my answer does give a slight indication where the "rule of law" emanated from, ie. doing away with one parent being assigned the role of guardian,(the father they said), but allowing the other parent, the mother most likely of course, to be the custodial, or resident parent(?).
I checked, and "the rule of law" they mentioned was based on Common Law- which, as you probably know, originated in the UK.. and much of it came over here (to US) and was applicable in the distant past.
One connected reference added under that rule of law, mothers were not natural guardians unless the fathers were dead.

The reason I focused on this topic was a question: as you've frequently mentioned all the messes in the courts system these days, would your goal (and the goal of fathers rights groups in general) be for the law to return to the way it was in the past- as an example, in the case of divorced parents, fathers should be granted custody of the children?
 
I checked, and "the rule of law" they mentioned was based on Common Law- which, as you probably know, originated in the UK.. and much of it came over here (to US) and was applicable in the distant past.
One connected reference added under that rule of law, mothers were not natural guardians unless the fathers were dead.
The reason I focused on this topic was a question: as you've frequently mentioned all the messes in the courts system these days, would your goal (and the goal of fathers rights groups in general) be for the law to return to the way it was in the past- as an example, in the case of divorced parents, fathers should be granted custody of the children?
I think I know what you are getting at, and I did once read parts of "Gibson's Divorce law" 1935, and it stated there that a woman behaving as my ex did would have been likely to lose custody of our child, though I'll agree with anyone saying this would have been the wrong outcome, because my daughter did need her mum, (just not then allowing her to get away with putting the pressure on my daughter to give up contact).

So no, the goal of fathers rights groups doesn't appear to be a return to how things were, but the mess its in suggests their ideas aren't so hot in my opinion, (if they have infuenced the way the law has developed).
 

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