RadishRose
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Mark, you're like a walking encyclopedia of Horticulture 
Very impressive @MarkD !! I envy you, except maybe for the living in the Bay Area part... I lived in Concord for a few years long ago, so I do know it. Beautiful and interesting place, but too many people for me. At least you have a private hide away.
Beautiful plants. Very impressive garden!
@MarkD ....I have that same Daphne plant and Arboreum plant. Only mine is still green.
Glorious! Thank you for showing it.I just came across this video on YouTube of a walk in a garden which is obviously in a place where water is less scarce. But what I am most jealous of is that the gardener is able to leave an open gate and invite visits.
Sharing a garden is a real pleasure though also a bit of work and some increased liability. I used to include on every garden event invite a disclaimer that read something like this:
The garden contains opportunities for death by falling, drowning, poison and impaling. Children carefully supervised by parents are welcome.
The best I can manage is to have friends over and to offer a look around to passers by who remark on the front garden as I’m working out there or when I’m coming or going. Before the pandemic I had a yearly drop-in open garden and would extend invites to my garden and horticulture groups as well handwritten ones to folks in the neighborhood whose gardens I’d admired ( which has led to many reciprocal garden visits and new friends).
I did once make it available for a Garden Conservancy Open Day where I did not meet Gerhard Bock, who writes the blog Succulents and More, that day but did later both here and in his garden in Davis after a friend directed me to read this write up from that first visit:
https://www.succulentsandmore.com/2017/04/pseudonatural-freakshow.html?m=1#more
Needless to say it is a joy to see one’s garden through the lens of another’s camera and he photobombs a garden more thoroughly than anyone else I know.
I like to visit formal gardens but I do not choose that style for my own garden.
Your gardens appeal to me Mark, you are certainly a talented and knowledgeable gardener. Love the video and all the pictures.
You may enjoy this video especially if you like bluebells. This wood is close to my home. I enjoy walking here in the Spring…listen to the birds…
Beautiful area, love your video,I’m feeling inspired by #Gary's diary about building his cabin in retirement to share what I’m doing in retirement.
Until the pandemic hit working out at the YMCA was a big part of retirement and made a huge difference in how I felt. Even before that I decided to lose the extra weight I’d put on as the teaching I used to love became more stressful and less fulfilling after No Child Left Behind. I lost more than 20 pounds as part of a New Year’s resolution in my first year of retirement seven years ago. I joined a Healthy Eating class at Kaiser which met ten times, once a week. I did another class in the fall and one last one the following January losing 50 pounds in all. But quitting the Y has resulted in gaining back 15.
Anyhow the best parts of retirement has been more time to develop my garden, walk my dogs and read great books.
Here are a couple of plot plans I once made of my garden before it was as finished as it is now. (No garden is ever truly finished.) I didn’t make a plan at the beginning and then stick with it. The garden and my vision for it evolved together unhurriedly.
I started making the back garden soon after I started teaching, more than thirty years ago. Our back fence abuts a city park to the east. To the south is a community orchard and on the north a year around creek separates our parcel from our neighbor. Our place is a a little cracker box of a warehouse, 40 by 80 feet situated in the southwest corner of our 100 feet wide by 120 feet deep lot. It isn’t large by rural standards but is unusually large by suburban standards and we have far more open ground than neighboring commercial buildings.
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The second one is centered on the back garden and the first drawing, showing the side garden m, has been rotated 90 degrees from its orientation in the other drawing.
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To give you a feel for it now here is a short video I took two years ago walking out the side doors, heading out to the back garden as far as to the pond where a hummingbird working over a red flowering Salvia wagneriana and a mostly orange colored Lobelia aguana seemed like a natural place to end it.
Looking forward to more pictures Mark!Thank you for sharing this, Jamala. I do like the look - sort of enhanced natural feel with a sense of spaciousness. We plantaholics can wind up with gardens that feel like warehouses for plants if we're not careful.. I zealously guard my open space and also my remaining areas of more sunny exposure. It can be tough get those back.
I visit a lot of gardens and know some folks with just amazing gardens. There isn't a single measure applicable to all gardens and I also enjoy seeing designs I wouldn't choose for myself. We used to do a big yearly drop-in event for friends and neighbors before the pandemic and my wife's ailing health put an end to that. Now we do a few smaller gatherings.
I take it you missed the floods we are reading about?