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AZ Jim

AZ Jim

R.I.P. With Us In Spirit Only
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Go across the room to your wife or hubby and after a kiss, tell 'em how much they mean to you. I know most of you think you tell them enough but if suddenly you lose your mate you'll wish you told them how much they mean to you more often. I know.....But I just found a large manila envelope that my late wife put away where she had saved all my cards and little notes over our 46 years together. I am satisfied she KNEW loved her.
 

Sassycakes said:
I'll do that right now. We're married almost 53yrs and I love him more and more each day. I can never tell him enough times what he means to me.
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Life is fleeting. One never knows when it might end.
 

Great advice Jim, funny but just before I came into the computer room, I went to the bedroom where my hubby is watching TV and I gave him a kiss and a hug. We often show each other every day that we love each other, and you're right, you never know when it can all end and it's good to let them know often.

I know your heart is aching from losing your dear wife, it's all very fresh for you, and I think of you often now hoping you're doing okay. So nice to find that stash of cards and notes, I know your love was deep. We also keep important cards and notes that we've given to each other over the years. Good to see you posting, please take care. :sentimental:
 
SB.....Thank you. Yes, I am hurting. I miss her so much. Thank God I held her hand till she passed. She was in a coma but at one point I told her I loved and she whispered that she loved me too. It was the last thing she said.
 
Ahhh... thatā€™s so very touching and amazing at the same time. Itā€™s like she made sure to connect with you before she finally left. Iā€™m sorry for your broken heart Jim. I canā€™t imagine that type of loss but my heart goes out to you.
 
AZ Jim said:
Thank God I held her hand till she passed. She was in a coma but at one point I told her I loved and she whispered that she loved me too. It was the last thing she said.
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Man, Jimā€¦thatā€™s the bestā€¦the very best
Itā€™s what loved ones hope for

Multitudes are lost without notice
As many depart without words

You, sir, have been blessed

The inevitable is inescapable

And becomes more visible as we grow old

My lady and I tell each other morning and night
Not an in passing thing, but a stop what yer doinā€™, eye to eye thing.
It gets us through the day with happy, grateful hearts, for that day, that hour.

Even if she was eyeing the frying pan and the back of my head that afternoon,
we go to sleep in each otherā€™s arms.

Thanks for coming on line to share your thoughts

Ours are with you
 
Next month, March, will be married for 18 years and, I not only get up each morning, to see her off to work, I give a kiss "goodbye" and a "I love you". Everynight, before we go to sleep, she says a prayer we both know and I say "I love you" and she replies "I love you to".
 
AZ Jim said:
SB.....Thank you. Yes, I am hurting. I miss her so much. Thank God I held her hand till she passed. She was in a coma but at one point I told her I loved and she whispered that she loved me too. It was the last thing she said.
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It was the same when my husband died although he wasnā€™t in a coma, he was out of it but somehow he managed an ā€œI love youā€.

The whole dying process lasted about 24 hrs and in all that time thatā€™s all he said but Iā€™m grateful he managed that. After 15 years I can still hear it as if it was yesterdayā£ļø
 
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