God has a plan. I hear this a lot especially from desperate people or those who are suffering. Some tell me this when I am struggling and it doesn't comfort me a bit. I wish it did. I usually go silent when someone who is hurting badly says this, more to themselves than to me, and just let them talk.
We all have challenging times in our lives at some point and feel stretched to the limit. Maybe we need real help or a definite plan that we are privy to not just patronizing words that are easily dismissed. I've seen a lot of loved ones die, many well before their time, a couple by suicide and I wonder, what was God's plan for them because it didn't work out too well.

A plan implies sharing. In war, Generals make plans and share them with subordinates. How else can a battle be won? Similar strategies are employed in sports where teams have a game plan with specific plays to achieve certain results and victory.
What good is a plan when it is kept hidden from those it directly concerns?
How do you feel about the title "God has a plan"? And do you think His plan should be shared with us so we could cope better with life's slings and arrows?
Imagine that God was a car company (chevy, ford, buick etc) God has in writing a license to build these cars.
However, is a car perfect? No. Just like man is not perfect. God is perfect and holy.
God is all knowing which is known as omniscient. God is all powerful also known as omnipotent.
God is also called the King of Kings which means he is the king above all other kings.
When we speak against God we speak against the highest authority. If God is therefore holy and perfect, then how can we accuse God and tell him what he should be doing? Jesus has said to many of his followers John 1:15:18 “If the world hates you, you know that it hated Me before
it hated you. Therefore, God is not surprised there are some here that are accusing him. There was some in the bible that didn't agree with Jesus and wanted to stone him to death. Do you that don't agree with him here want to stone Jesus to death?
But God has given you a freewill to make that choice. You'll either accept God in faith and believe or would you rather call him a liar?
God doesn't lie Romans 3: 3-4
3 For what if some did not believe? Will their unbelief make the faithfulness of God without effect? 4 Certainly not! Indeed, let God be [
b]true but every man a liar. As it is written:
“That You may be justified in Your words,
And may overcome when You are judged.”
But there's a liar greater than man who is Lucifer, Satan the Devil. The Devil is trying to get mankind to join in his rebellion.
The Devil is able to quietly whisper in your mind to turn you against God. Satan knows that he can turn you against God and then you'll have no hope or salvation in God. Even the Devil asked God to jump off the temple to tempt God in Matthew 4.
Jesus didn't jump because he said you shall not tempt the Lord your God.
Therefore, anyone thinking or committed suicide was the idea of the devil. I know about this because I've attempted multiple times.
I'm not going to share any of this with anyone here. I'm not going to give anyone any ideas.
Even if you say IMO then know this from the book of Proverbs 3: 5
Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
And lean not on your own understanding.
Remember that Jesus suffered for all of mankind for his sins.
Romans 5:8 8 But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
Even early Christians were burned at the stake like Nero. Even today in the Middle East Christians are being imprisoned and persecuted.
Suffering, persecution and name calling is part of a Christian life that he must endure. No matter if you suffer or have cancer know that God loves you. God did not makes us robots so that he can force decisions. Your decision to follow and believe him has to be sincere and from your heart.
Jesus said there are mansions that are prepared for you. If it weren't true, then I would not have told you.
Don't focus on this life that is temporary. Rather focus on God.
And I finalize with this from the bible Revelation 21 and Rev. 19