Ruby Rose
Location: Canadian Prairies
Lie #1: When my youngest daughter was a cop, and I was living in the area at that time, I would see her pretty well every second day. Two weeks went by and there was no sign of her, though she would phone pretty well every day and I asked her how she was and she'd say "Fine, fine, I'm just busy." Then she showed up at the door and the first thing she said to me was, "Do I look any different?" And, I looked at her and said "No." "Oh, good," she said. It turned out she had gotten into a kafuffle with a perpetrator and got punched in the face, and didn't want to tell me at the time.
Lie #2: I get a phone call in the middle of the night from my eldest daughter, a soldier, who is outside of Dubai and in camouflage. I quickly asked her "Anything wrong? How are you?" "No, I'm cool, just wanted to say hello to my Momma." I never did find out the truth about this call out of the blue.
Lie #3: I also got a phone call from this same eldest daughter when she was in Colombia, to wish us a happy holidays, and through the phone I could hear sounds suspiciously like gunshots, to which she said, "Oh, no, it's fireworks!" As it turned out, they were gunshots.
So, there, would you call all the above lies? I must tell you, I am a champion worry-wart! And, to this day, even though my daughters are retired, I still worry. I am sure there have been many more lies . . .
Have you had similar experiences as a parent?
Lie #2: I get a phone call in the middle of the night from my eldest daughter, a soldier, who is outside of Dubai and in camouflage. I quickly asked her "Anything wrong? How are you?" "No, I'm cool, just wanted to say hello to my Momma." I never did find out the truth about this call out of the blue.
Lie #3: I also got a phone call from this same eldest daughter when she was in Colombia, to wish us a happy holidays, and through the phone I could hear sounds suspiciously like gunshots, to which she said, "Oh, no, it's fireworks!" As it turned out, they were gunshots.
So, there, would you call all the above lies? I must tell you, I am a champion worry-wart! And, to this day, even though my daughters are retired, I still worry. I am sure there have been many more lies . . .
Have you had similar experiences as a parent?