Hello beloved seniors, I need feedback from the older humans on the planet

Yes, sex and men, and it seems that if men make it to the home they are in demand as there is so few of them... :cool:
 

It's really hard to create personal boundaries when we didn't grow up with them. My parents allowed me no privacy. There was nothing that was just "mine"; everything was theirs and they would decide when I was permitted to use their property (even my toys and clothes were not really "mine"). As a result it was a shock when I went away to school and discovered that I could tell my roommate what was "mine" and she would respect that. Over many years, I learned to draw my boundaries (what is me and what is not-me), and with my children this was a difficult but very important process. I can recommend it to anyone who is having trouble with children and grandchildren intruding: they aren't seeing your boundaries, and you need to draw them clearly.
 
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