Henry is coming

Aneeda72

Well-known Member
I want to thank everyone for their input and advice. Everyone is correct and for a variety of reasons I should not get a new puppy dog. So many reasons to not get a new puppy dog, and I am aware of all the reasons, especially the my stupid difficult husband reason. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Trust me, the stupid difficult husband reason is resolved, without bloodshed-his bloodshed, of course.

But, I have decided, at 75, that life is just too short to live without a dog. So husband and I comprised. I get to get a dog, he gets to stay alive. 😬. I prefer a female dog, he like males. I put a down payment on a male. He agreed to a “just right“ dog. Not too small, not to big, non shedding, an older puppy. a just right puppy.

The ad said, I swear, the ad said moyen poodle puppies for sale, one male left, lower price. This puppy is perfect, not too large, not to small, JUST RIGHT for your family. Sooo, I showed him the ad. A JUST RIGHT puppy 😍. We went and looked. The puppy is just right.

Up to 24 inches tall, between 24 to 30 pounds, non shedding, a poodle, large enough to jump in the car, small enough to fit in the car, small enough to live in an apartment, large enough to not trip over. Husband agreed, he’s JUST RIGHT.

He will be 13 weeks on October 15 when we pick him up so not too young, not too old. He has rich auburn hair, not black, not white, auburn. At ten weeks mom is still nursing him, 😳. When I told the vet this he said weird, yup, I thought it was weird as well. The vet said to tell the breeder to stop letting him nurse. I requested this, but did not demand it. He eats puppy food as well. He is a fat little guy.

I named him Henry. I am ordering all of his stuff on Amazon so I will have it all when I pick him up. We will pick him up when we return from Texas.

My daughter is not well and unable to walk for the last two weeks. She has used all her vacation time, all her sick time, all her savings, and has gone on leave from work. Her three year old came into her room with her guitar, pretend played and sang twinkle twinkle little star, gave her mommy her blanket and her teddy bear. 😢.

We are deeply worried and returning to Texas October 7. I put half of the money left from the sale of the house in an account for her and half in another account for my oldest son to have whatever was left after we die; a few thousand at best a few hundred at worst. It is not much but more than nothing. I will go down and give her access to that account now for medical bills, cause she needs the money now. And, if needed, she will the get sons share as well.

Then we will return home. Get the puppy, and hope the stupid government does not shut down and stop sending our social security checks, as once again, we will might have no savings. 🤦🏻‍♀️
 

Last edited:
Aneeda, congratulations on your new dog Henry, he is adorable! I'm sorry I wasn't keeping up, but what ever happened to your Bella, do you still have her?

Sorry to hear about your daughter, I hope she can get better soon.
 
Aneeda, congratulations on your new dog Henry, he is adorable! I'm sorry I wasn't keeping up, but what ever happened to your Bella, do you still have her?

Sorry to hear about your daughter, I hope she can get better soon.
When I had hip replacement surgery, two months ago, my husband announced he would not take care of Bella, and rehomed her. 🤬. So, to make a long story short, since I no longer had a dog and only agreed to buy a house so I could have a dog, I sold the house.
 
When I had hip replacement surgery, two months ago, my husband announced he would not take care of Bella, and rehomed her. 🤬. So, to make a long story short, since I no longer had a dog and only agreed to buy a house so I could have a dog, I sold the house.
Poor Bella, I hope she's happy with her new family. Hoping your surgery was successful and you feel much better too. I want little Henry to be with you for a long time and live a good life. He'll need a lot of grooming, their hair grows and grows and has to be cut or clippered regularly. I have a Labradoodle (Lab and Poodle mix), and I keep the grooming table and supplies handy. Don't take him to groomers, prefer to do it myself.
 
Poor Bella, I hope she's happy with her new family. Hoping your surgery was successful and you feel much better too. I want little Henry to be with you for a long time and live a good life. He'll need a lot of grooming, their hair grows and grows and has to be cut or clippered regularly. I have a Labradoodle (Lab and Poodle mix), and I keep the grooming table and supplies handy. Don't take him to groomers, prefer to do it myself.
We have owned standard poodles before and my daughter has 5 toys and one huge standard poodle. She has promised to take Henry when we die as I was worried about that. I plan to litter box train Henry for the winter months(wanted to do this with Bella, but husband refused.)

The box will be one the apartment patio as we have a bottom level apartment. Husband has agreed this time to do this. There is a large husky in the complex who is litter box trained to a large “box“ on the patio. He’s never missed and he must be 80 pounds at least. 😳😂

The apartment has as many dogs as people 😂. We have already planned puppy play dates with a Shepard-poodle mix and perhaps a French bulldog older puppy. But Henry has to stay in till all shots are done because there are just too many dogs around that he could catch stuff from.

Oh, Bella went to a person who worked at petsmart and was experienced with corgis. This young lady, in her twenties, is a hiker and Bella will be very very happy with a more active mom.
 
We have owned standard poodles before and my daughter has 5 toys and one huge standard poodle. She has promised to take Henry when we die as I was worried about that. I plan to litter box train Henry for the winter months(wanted to do this with Bella, but husband refused.)

The box will be one the apartment patio as we have a bottom level apartment. Husband has agreed this time to do this. There is a large husky in the complex who is litter box trained to a large “box“ on the patio. He’s never missed and he must be 80 pounds at least. 😳😂

The apartment has as many dogs as people 😂. We have already planned puppy play dates with a Shepard-poodle mix and perhaps a French bulldog older puppy. But Henry has to stay in till all shots are done because there are just too many dogs around that he could catch stuff from.
Very happy to hear that your daughter will take Henry if anything happens to you, that's a great comfort. I only trained with newspapers until the pup was ready to go out into the yard reliably, but a litter box is good especially in an apartment. Good luck with your baby boy, big hug from me when he comes home.
 
Aneeda.....congratulations on your new family member.....looking at him.....Henry is a very suiting name.
I miss Bella......do you ever get updates on how she's doing.
This question has already been answered......so you are on ground level......do you have access to outside from your apartment.
I hope this little Prince will make you happy.
 
Aneeda.....congratulations on your new family member.....looking at him.....Henry is a very suiting name.
I miss Bella......do you ever get updates on how she's doing.
This question has already been answered......so you are on ground level......do you have access to outside from your apartment.
I hope this little Prince will make you happy.
No updates on Bella.

Yes, the apartment is not a senior apartment and we have direct access to outside and to a “private” patio. The apartment has lots of green spaces. I am planning a thread on the apartment. I think it will be of interest. 😊

I still miss Bella a great deal and I am still angry with my husband over her loss, but nothing I could do at the time, nothing I could do now, as nothing I could do over over issues in the past around other dogs and things in general.

But we have a firm understanding now about rules surrounding Henry and me in general. My husband is trying very hard to get on my good side, but I no longer have a good side concerning him. I can not be “fooled” by his behavior. He shattered every bit of trust.

Henry will be just great. Even the thought of him makes me happy. And I am very happy with the apartment. I already have his vet appointment set for October 16. Most of his stuff is ordered and coming before we leave for Texas. I found a container to use for his outdoor litter box, and a container to use for an indoor litter box.

I am going to use the equine pine filling, if I can find it, as I think it is the safest for dogs. Otherwise there is a recycled newspaper dog litter that is available at Walmart. The kitty litter can be used, but it is dangerous for puppies in some circumstance if they eat it. As we all know, puppies eat everything.

Hopefully, it will all work out. My daughters sudden illness and continued severe medical issues are worrisome along with her financial situation caused by all the medical bills. Fortunately we still have money left from the sale of our house.

I talked to her husband late last night and he claims they don’t need any funds from us. The insurance finally agreed to pay for the MRI, at the last moment, so they only had to pay 81 dollars instead of a couple thousand-that was a big relief.
 

Back
Top