Nathan
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Revenge does not heal wounds, or help a person sleep better, it just makes a place for evil in one's own heart.
Revenge can restore a person's dignity and self-respect. Whether or not it's worth going to prison or sacrificing one's own life depends on the situation and the amount of damage caused to one's self-esteem.Revenge does not heal wounds, or help a person sleep better, it just makes a place for evil in one's own heart.
This is completely understandable.Well I always look at it this way, if someone harmed or killed a member of my family, I want that person dead.
How can perpetuating hate/violence/evil lead to positive feelings of dignity and self-respect?Revenge can restore a person's dignity and self-respect. Whether or not it's worth going to prison or sacrificing one's own life depends on the situation and the amount of damage caused to one's self-esteem.
How Consequences Restore Self-RespectHow can perpetuating hate/violence/evil lead to positive feelings of dignity and self-respect?
Accountability and enforcing consequences is of course what the law and criminal penalties are all about. Revenge does not equal accountability and enforcing consequences.How Consequences Restore Self-Respect
- Affirming Self-Worth: Setting boundaries and enforcing consequences teaches others that their actions have repercussions, which in turn teaches you to value your own worth rather than tolerating poor treatment.
- Empowerment: Taking action to hold someone accountable increases your sense of power and self-efficacy. It transitions you from a "victim" state to one of agency, where you control how you respond to harm.
- Reinforcing Standards: By not allowing disrespect to go unaddressed, you honor your own needs and values, which is the core of self-respect.
Yes.has anyone recalled the biblical reminder "vengeance is mine sayeth the Lord"? just saying
"Vengeance is mine, saith the Lord" is a powerful biblical phrase from Romans 12:19, instructing believers not to seek personal revenge, but to trust God for justice, leaving retribution to Him as He promises to repay wrongdoing in His own time and way, often followed by instructions to show love and kindness even to enemies
It's the Lord's not ours.has anyone recalled the biblical reminder "vengeance is mine sayeth the Lord"? just saying
The problem with that is, in the U.S. and in many countries, we have a two tiered legal system. You can get away with fraud if you're rich. You can get away with destroying someone's reputation if you have a good lawyer. You can get away with a lot of different kinds of crime if you have the money to play the legal system.Accountability and enforcing consequences is of course what the law and criminal penalties are all about.
The problem with that is, in the U.S. and in many countries, we have a two tiered legal system. You can get away with fraud if you're rich. You can get away with destroying someone's reputation if you have a good lawyer. You can get away with a lot of different kinds of crime if you have the money to play the legal system.
I think that is good of you, but will you pay for it then please, instead of forcing me to pay? I did hard labor for every Almighty Dollar I earned so I like to choose my charities. My charity will never go to the depraved murderer although I hope my sympathy and understanding will.I have struggled unsuccessfully with this issue for years, but any conclusion I may eventually come to, if I ever do, cannot be based on economics.
Gee, I wish I could help you out there, but I don't fund our legal system - I just bore people with my opinions.I think that is good of you, but will you pay for it then please, instead of forcing me to pay? I did hard labor for every Almighty Dollar I earned so I like to choose my charities. My charity will never go to the depraved murderer although I hope my sympathy and understanding will.
That's why I think force em to work. Don't work. Don't eat. Put an assembly line there. No food if you refuse to work.I think that is good of you, but will you pay for it then please, instead of forcing me to pay? I did hard labor for every Almighty Dollar I earned so I like to choose my charities. My charity will never go to the depraved murderer although I hope my sympathy and understanding will.
Gee, I wish I could help you out there, but I don't fund our legal system - I just bore people with my opinions.BTW, Don't know if you saw this post from CallMeKate
Exactly. Here murderers live better than I do, languishing in luxury, while our military sleep on cots in 50-man tents with noisy clacking generators. What the hell? If it's good enough for our boys, it's good enough for a murderer.That's why I think force em to work. Don't work. Don't eat. Put an assembly line there. No food if you refuse to work.
It's absurd that they just get paid and in my country have it way better than a homeless person. I don't really care because I work only 3 days and have a nice job, but indeed those men who work really hard, to force them to pay taxes to house and feed murderers is highly unfair.
You betcha. Buy a bolt-action.Uh... this 22 cal. rifle is also a semi automatic. does this fall into your total ban also?
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No I mean all semiautomatic rifles and pistols. I don't mind if the police have them. Gangsters typically use Glock-type 9mms, .380s and similar pistols.This is a "semiautomatic weapon"...
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I think you mean semiautomatic rifle or maybe AR-15 style rifle. Those are the weapons of choice of mass murderers.
~There have been a few people over the years who've been exonerated and released because newly found DNA evidence proved they did not commit the murders they were accused of. What if they had been executed? I just read about a man's family who received a massive payout (millions) because their loved one was wrongly accused, spent 28 years in prison and was not guilty of the crime. Unfortunately, he died a couple of years after he was released and did not get to enjoy any of the money, which was awarded after his death.