My older grandchildren are 10 & 13, and certainly know their parents', grandparents' and GG's names. As did I. They also know where their parents grew up and met. Also where their GPs grew up and met.I just have a simple question: Do your grandchildren know your full name? I was at a friend's place this week for a Friendsgiving celebration and, with the presence of his older parents, the conversation of leaving behind a legacy sprang up. Since I grew up in a household full of family, always exchanging stories, I just assumed that he knew basic things about his parents like where they grew up, where they met, and what early career paths they took. To my surprise, he stumbled to get even the basic facts straight about his parents!
This, 100%.How old was the child you spoke with? Might his stumbling around been a sign of discomfort with talking to you about these things? At the very least, my GKs would think it odd for non-family members to ask questions about family details.
No haha we didn't grill the kids harshly lol. We just got curious about how much they knew after realizing that my friend didn't know much about his parents.This, 100%.
The OP grilling kids for information IS odd.
Thanks for the in depth feedback, glad you all know your family's history. My friend's kids are between 14-17. That's true they might have been taken off guard, it is a silly/interrogative question at face value "Do you know your grandparent's names?" But they're not the shy type and our families are close, they simply didn't know.My older grandchildren are 10 & 13, and certainly know their parents', grandparents' and GG's names. As did I. They also know where their parents grew up and met. Also where their GPs grew up and met.
Pretty sure my grands have heard stories about their parents' HS & college jobs, are well-familiar with their current careers. Ditto with their 4 grandparents' jobs and careers.
How old was the child you spoke with? Might his stumbling around been a sign of discomfort with talking to you about these things? At the very least, my GKs would think it odd for non-family members to ask questions about family details.
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100% you should. My grandfather did a similar thing of photo book with written blurbs about many of the photos, didn't appreciate it until later in life.I was on the fence between "I think so" and "probably not", then went ahead and chose "probably not".
My own son has just recently been more interested in family history, since he is now in his mid 40s. I've got almost 30 years of genealogy material amassed, would like to get it organized and condensed into a coherent, readable form.
Gotcha haha thanks for the response, yes the name "grandma" does not count!Yes my grandchildren know my full name (and it’s NOT grandma, lol) and names of people in the immediate family. They don’t know the names of great grandparents or (great-aunts/uncles). Clue: we are not a close-knit family, although a large one.
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