Honey, it is not the problem of the other folks here. I appreciate your sympathies and concern, but to expect others to mourn our situations is a bit unfair to the others here. Lindav will survive. She cannot "close" her account here. Once you join, you stay whether you post or not. She will be back and if not...then life goes on. I wish I could help her too. Hell, I wish I could help myself. Oh. Wait. I have been, lol.
Its all good, sweety. Don't make others feel guilty because they don't wish to be all depressed with those who are. Seeing normal convos going on helps, to be honest.
Hugs