packrat
MS-newbie
- Location
- new england
Just read post 6044 - a person matter. My friends mother died and her sister
had to come across the country and help her with finances because she was the oldest sibling.
For me, this would be a disaster. I won't get into details, but it has to do with adoption and
parental meddling. We have been estranged for decades. We're both happy this way.
It was suggested to me that I could direct where I want it all to go with a revokable trust
and me as the trustee, and that when I pass, the next in line in this trust could take over
and it would become a nonrevokable trust at that time.
I could put my wishes in this trust or a will, but I will will takes years in probate, while a
trust would probably be a few weeks.
I'm not a rich person by any measure, but I do own my home, and sometimes distant
relatives ask personal questions that only circling vultures would ask.
Any experiences with this sort of thing, or advice, would be most welcome.
I'd like some idea of what I might be getting into if I choose this route.
had to come across the country and help her with finances because she was the oldest sibling.
For me, this would be a disaster. I won't get into details, but it has to do with adoption and
parental meddling. We have been estranged for decades. We're both happy this way.
It was suggested to me that I could direct where I want it all to go with a revokable trust
and me as the trustee, and that when I pass, the next in line in this trust could take over
and it would become a nonrevokable trust at that time.
I could put my wishes in this trust or a will, but I will will takes years in probate, while a
trust would probably be a few weeks.
I'm not a rich person by any measure, but I do own my home, and sometimes distant
relatives ask personal questions that only circling vultures would ask.
Any experiences with this sort of thing, or advice, would be most welcome.
I'd like some idea of what I might be getting into if I choose this route.