So tell me, what talents/skills would you like to have?
Great question! Thank you.
I'm a firm believer in that "talent" is a direct correlation to the amount of work that a person puts into whatever the task is. Lots of people argue that a musician is "talented", but if that's true, I'm not one of them even though I've spent 50+ years as a musician, professional, wannabe-professional, and amateur. I've never hit the big time, though I found I can't not do music.
But what I have found, WITHOUT EXCEPTION, is that those who have leapfrogged beyond me have done so because they've put the work in. We're talking serious woodshedding and dedicated practice. Sometimes, so goes the tragedy, that some musicians (thinly disguised as pop stars) can break out and collect millions without a solid musical basis, and that's true.
If I could do it all over again, I would be a mapmaker. Tried to do that in the Army, but they wouldn't take me due to poor eyesight. So I did other things (cooking, music, linguistics, translations, leadership) and enjoyed the ride. I ain't done yet.
If you want to see unbridled joy in a musician doing what she truly loves, look no farther: