I feel sorry for the little boy up the street

debodun

debodun

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I've spoken with him on two occasions. Once I was returning from a walk and I heard a plaintive "Hi." I didn't see anyone until he stepped out from behind a bush. At that time I just returned the greeting. A few weeks ago, I was out trimming grass along the road and he came over to show me his remote-controlled car. It must be there aren't any other kids his age around here. There are some teeneagers I've seen, but this kid is probably around 7. I've noticed, though, when he starts talking, his father comes out on the porch and stands there. Maybe dad doesn't allow the kid much leeway. But in today's society, it's difficult to trust people.
 

helenbacque said:
He sounds lonely and maybe missing his own grandmother. It might be fun to get to know him.
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THis is probably true but i also find some children fascinated by adults that will give them the time of day....
many kids like talking and parents after a while tune them out.... I have had many kids who will chat me ear off because i will listen to them as be fascinated by they toys or tricks etc.
 
debodun said:
I just wonder about dad. Why isn't he at work? If he's unemployed, how that family can afford expensive toys for the kid.
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Hard to know what he does. He could do shift work with odd and or rotating days. The wife could be the main bread winner. I worked with a woman who was. Her husband did everything at home she said.

As far as introducing yourself, the dad could also instead of just standing there. He could walk to the side walk and speak with you also. I would think that would be something a parent might want to do, know who is in the neighborhood and I find it a little odd that he didn't.
 
Growing up in the country there were very few kids anywhere close to me, I spent my free time wandering farm to farm visiting with the old timers. I spent more time with them than my own family, and I am thankful everyday of my life to have known and learned from them.

Introduce yourself to the dad, maybe you can be a positive influence on that boys life.
 
debodun said:
I've spoken with him on two occasions. Once I was returning from a walk and I heard a plaintive "Hi." I didn't see anyone until he stepped out from behind a bush. At that time I just returned the greeting. A few weeks ago, I was out trimming grass along the road and he came over to show me his remote-controlled car. It must be there aren't any other kids his age around here. There are some teeneagers I've seen, but this kid is probably around 7. I've noticed, though, when he starts talking, his father comes out on the porch and stands there. Maybe dad doesn't allow the kid much leeway. But in today's society, it's difficult to trust people.
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That's so nice that the boy is friendly to you. If I'm correct, did you just move into the area (or I may have confused you with someone else)? If you're new, then it would be good to introduce yourself. If this family is new in the neighborhood, then still introduce yourself. Like others, I'm surprised the father didn't speak to you or make an effort to greet you. The boy will probably be going to school soon, so you won't be having these golden opportunities often (unless he's homeschooled).
 
Dad might have told the boy not to leave his yard. So, glaring at him might have been appropriate. People have already listed reasons the father might be home, most of which are legitimate situations that a dad may have, especially shift work.

Sad how people jump to negative opinions/ speculation on anything they see....

Sound like a good friendly kid, I agree, go talk with the parent(s)...maybe the little guy needs a friend. And us Timewise folks generally make good friends...
 
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