nvtribefan
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And what is your lifetime habit of keeping in touch, and calling her?
Ill and no phone calls from sister
- Thread starter Aurora
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And what is your lifetime habit of keeping in touch, and calling her?
Kaya
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- Northern Cali
I don't get along with my sister. We have always fought. Being older, we still fight. So, we don't talk. I'd rather be alone than deal with her attitude. But, that's me. Do what your heart tells you to do. You are the one that has to deal with her.
Aurora
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- midwest USA
I consider this thread closed--moderator. I won't read more replies and I am taking a long leave from this site,indefinitely.
Some of you misun derstood this situation completely and I don't wish to explain everything.. You would just
write more snippy judgmental snarky comments. Sorry I posted this.
I got more advice than I want or need. The first bunch of comments are okay.( Thanks for the cards and support.)
Don't get it? Well, I have been through the greatest trauma of my life--major heart surgery with enormous pain, suffering,
mortal fear and emotional stress. What part of that don't you understand? The pain does not end when you leave the
hospital--nor does the aggravation especially when you are totally alone. I am still recovering as I write this.
I still need pain relievers. So I get easily impatient with people. You would, too. I didn't think I had to spell that out.
So, long.
Some of you misun derstood this situation completely and I don't wish to explain everything.. You would just
write more snippy judgmental snarky comments. Sorry I posted this.
I got more advice than I want or need. The first bunch of comments are okay.( Thanks for the cards and support.)
Don't get it? Well, I have been through the greatest trauma of my life--major heart surgery with enormous pain, suffering,
mortal fear and emotional stress. What part of that don't you understand? The pain does not end when you leave the
hospital--nor does the aggravation especially when you are totally alone. I am still recovering as I write this.
I still need pain relievers. So I get easily impatient with people. You would, too. I didn't think I had to spell that out.
So, long.
Robusta
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- upstate New York
Well damn Aurora,ya dun went an got me all teery ied now.
CindyLouWho
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- USA
Aurora, just want to say I'm sorry for the emotional and physical pain you have gone through, you're ongoing recovery and strained relationship with your sister.
Life can deal us some difficult times to navigate though by ourselves, but in doing so I think we learn a lot about ourselves & how strong we can be when left with no other choice. We also definitely find out who are "true" friends and family really are, who believes in us when the chips are down and who turn their backs and judge us. Find those who bring out the best in you and you in them.
Wish you all the best...you are not alone.
Life can deal us some difficult times to navigate though by ourselves, but in doing so I think we learn a lot about ourselves & how strong we can be when left with no other choice. We also definitely find out who are "true" friends and family really are, who believes in us when the chips are down and who turn their backs and judge us. Find those who bring out the best in you and you in them.
Wish you all the best...you are not alone.
Goldilocks
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- Canada
I hope you are feeling better after your surgery. I understand where you are coming from with your sister. I have one of those too! There is no perfect family, but despite this family is family. None of us is perfect. We know how to annoy, disappoint, and be angry. The first sister to forgive is always the happiest.