Is it worth having kids repeat grades in school?

.Both my brother & I are dyslexic, but we didn't know that 50-60 years ago. He had to repeat the first grade and again the second grade. Here he was the tallest, biggest kid in his class, and he was struggling. While he kept it hidden, he was emotionally upset about having to repeat those grades. There was a lot of anger in him. He really wasn't a bad kid, he was labeled "difficult". He left school early, and went on to provide for him, his wife & three kids. Those repeated grades, even today, are a sore area for him, but you have to know how to read., etc. My question is was it worth having him repeat those grades?
 

Probably not. Back then special education was just getting started. I don't know if Special Ed deals with that issue now or not. It wouldn't surprise me if they don't.
 
Well, I'd think that even if nobody understood dyslexia at the time he should have had some support because it was difficult for him.

What I noticed when I was a student- kids who repeated grades because they had trouble with classwork benefited, had no longterm complications. However, kids who were held back because they were so-called "immature" had difficulties throughout their school years.
 

It was just the opposite with my sister.

She was pushed along and many issues were overlooked because she was a sweet people pleaser.

I would hope that today with all of the professional resources and early intervention programs that the majority of children could be helped with special sessions, summer school, etc… that would allow them to move along with their peers.
 
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Is it worth having kids repeat grades in school?​

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"Both my brother & I are dyslexic, but we didn't know that 50-60 years ago."

How about now? Are kids being held back & what would be cause for being held back?
 
I had to repeat my algebra class to graduate....and I think
my history also.,...but I just told the principle to forget the
history class LOL...did make it thru the algebra finally.....I'm
no dummy, but book learning was difficult for me.....
 
When I was school age, I looked down on those who had to repeat a grade I'm sorry to say. I think they should pass conditionally if they take remedial school in summer.
 
My son was one that had to take what we call a bridge year here, He had just turned 5 a week before kindergarten started. So had a additional year before he went to the first grade. It worked out very well for him. So many kids develop a bad attitude towards school when they are put into situations they are not ready for. I think it is important to give each child the time and assistance they need to really learn, it does follow them all their lives, can destroy their confidence and make them afraid of school. No child should suffer that.
 
My son was one that had to take what we call a bridge year here, He had just turned 5 a week before kindergarten started. So had a additional year before he went to the first grade. It worked out very well for him. So many kids develop a bad attitude towards school when they are put into situations they are not ready for. I think it is important to give each child the time and assistance they need to really learn, it does follow them all their lives, can destroy their confidence and make them afraid of school. No child should suffer that.
I've never heard of that. Do you mean he stayed in K. for the extra year, or took a year off between K & 1?

I started Kindergarten at 4, which is flat-out stupid. Didn't put my kids in til they were 6.
 
I've never heard of that. Do you mean he stayed in K. for the extra year, or took a year off between K & 1?

I started Kindergarten at 4, which is flat-out stupid. Didn't put my kids in til they were 6.
The bridge year is a mix of kindergarten and first grade learning. When I was a kid they did not have such a thing. There were many that had just tuned 5 in the summer before kindergarten started, The bridge year gave them more time to adapt to school. Kindergarten was half days. Bridge was full school days. When they went to first grade they were six.
 
The bridge year is a mix of kindergarten and first grade learning. When I was a kid they did not have such a thing. There were many that had just tuned 5 in the summer before kindergarten started, The bridge year gave them more time to adapt to school. Kindergarten was half days. Bridge was full school days. When they went to first grade they were six.
Interesting!
 
My brother is dyslexic, really struggled in school, and still has problems reading a writing a lot.

It may have been to his benefit, he was quite intelligent, but to my parents dismay not college material. He instead went into business, and in the end made a lot more money than either of his "well educated" brothers. I do not think holding him back would have done any good, certainly would not have cured his dyslexia.
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Dominant current K12 policies that pass students regardless of minimal performance is not a solution as it just gives students that don't care little reason to try and dilutes the value of eventual a graduation diploma. This all began to get worse after the late 60s.
 
Not holding back is called 'social promotion.' That's to keep 20 year olds from being high school seniors.
 
I don't think there should be social promotion, some of these kids have a reason that they are struggling, learning disabilties, medical problems, family and home stability. There should be programs for them to continue their education after high school or age 18 in the public system.

For kids that just don't want to earn a diploma, even though they could do it easily. They would rather run wild, get into trouble etc. They should not be awarded a diploma, something they did not earn by doing the work.
 
Dominant current K12 policies that pass students regardless of minimal performance is not a solution as it just gives students that don't care little reason to try and dilutes the value of eventual a graduation diploma. This all began to get worse after the late 60s.
Maybe it varied from place to place, but I graduated from high school in the late 1970s and it wasn't happening in the schools I attended then.
 
We had a few of those in my high school, for a different reason. The draft board finally got onto them and took the lot. No women in that old student group...
There can be various reasons students are older. I never failed a course, never failed a grade, wasn't out of school for an extended period of time for any reason.. but was 19 during Senior year and when I graduated...
 
I was 5 in the first grade and was dyslexic. Of course, back then it was called "not trying hard enough". Believe me, I tried but it wasn't working.

I probably should have been held back and there wouldn't have been an age problem. Couldn't read in second grade either or even the first half of third grade.

Then something "snapped" in my brain and one day I could read and extremely well at that.
 
Repeating two grades in a row? That's got to be beyond tough. It's too bad he wasn't looked at more closely as an individual. But I think you are right about no understanding dyslexia. But I wonder how many kids just fall through.

I don't think it's right for a child to go through that. What did your parent's do or think?
 
This article by a professor of pediatrics indicates it isn't really helpful (usually). I never thought of it before, but back in the days of one room classrooms it wouldn't have been a thing at all, would it?

Repeating a grade―also known as "grade retention" ―has not been shown to help children learn.
Children won't outgrow learning and attention issues by repeating a grade. In fact, repeating a grade may contribute to long-term issues with low self-esteem, as well as emotional or social difficulties.
The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) believes children are most successful when they are supported to advance grade levels with their peers, when possible, while reasons behind their lack of academic progress are sorted out and addressed.
Some students may benefit from repeating a grade, at least in the short term―especially those who already have strong self-esteem and are emotionally healthy but are still having difficulty keeping up academically with their classmates. But even if students who were held back improve on standardized test scores, this doesn't appear to help their overall learning.
Repeating a grade can be considered an adverse childhood experience (ACE). Research suggests that repeating a grade, at any grade level, is associated with later high school dropout and other long-term effects. It also can affect a child's social and emotional development. In one study, sixth-grade students rated having to repeat a grade as "the most stressful life event."
In addition to academic supports and services such as extra one-on-one time with a teacher's aide, there are other alternatives to repeating a grade. One example is multi-age grouping, or mixing children from two or more grade levels in the same classroom. This way, a child stays in the same classroom with his or her friends—continues developing socially and emotionally—but receives the appropriate academic work that he or she needs. It also allows for the completion of grade-appropriate work in areas where they are capable. Other options include allowing children to repeat a failed semester instead of a full year. Extended school year or summer learning programs may also be offered in some areas.
 


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