Is life too long?

Bretrick

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A great many of us never thought about the future when we were young.
I remember when I received my first pay packet at 15 years of age in 1977.
On it was my retirement date, 2027. Wow, that seemed like a hundred years away.
Why would I need to think about saving for my retirement?
I come from a working class family, my father was the earner, that is what he done. He earned enough money to raise, house, feed and educate five children.
He gave no advice. He let his children make their own way. Plenty of mistakes were made.
He said that is how one learns to live life. Mistakes had to be made to grow.
Personally, I never even started to think about saving for retirement until well into my forties.
My life, without advice, saw me squander all of my income, every week.
Not until I came out of my 30 year drunken stupor did I finally start to take notice of the world. What I saw was wickedness.
So many people out to con/scam a person.
Life in these situations can seem too long.
Day after day of drudgery, working to live, working to save enough for when the senior years arrive.
These days? Life still seems too long.
I am still working and will be still working for another six years, though I doubt my health will hold up that long.
Working to have a little money behind me. Enough to be able to afford petrol for an occasional trip out into the Aussie bush.
 

If someone is unhappy, yes, life is a chore, and they often don't feel as if it's worth living. I think that finding something or someone that makes you happy changes that and makes you feel like life is worth living.

I'm so sorry you're feeling this way, Brett. It makes me sad because you're such a great guy. You deserve happiness, and I want you to be happy. Is there nothing you can do or change in your life to help yourself make living seem worthwhile?
 
If someone is unhappy, yes, life is a chore, and they often don't feel as if it's worth living. I think that finding something or someone that makes you happy changes that and makes you feel like life is worth living.

I'm so sorry you're feeling this way, Brett. It makes me sad because you're such a great guy. You deserve happiness, and I want you to be happy. Is there nothing you can do or change in your life to help yourself make living seem worthwhile?
I am okay. Working towards retirement. There is enough to give me a modicum of "happiness".
I sometimes find life to be meaningless if all we do for the majority of it is work towards retirement.
 
Every man has two lives, and the second one starts when he realizes he has just one.
Every day you are allowed to wake up, every day God allows you to move under your own power, he has a plan for you.
Looking in the rearview doesn't move you forward.
I did eventually learn that looking back can be fraught with misery and discontent. Stopped looking back, now looking forward to retirement when I will be spending most of my time out in the Aussie bush. (When it is not too hot)
 
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It sounds like you're in a bad slump today. Did something happen to cause this dip? Try to think about the positives in your life.
Occasionally there are minor bad days. I always manage to pull myself out of the malaise.
I find it good therapy to write what is on my mind. Gets it out, stops it going around and around. Clears the head of negativity
 
I am okay. Working towards retirement. There is enough to give me a modicum of "happiness".
I sometimes find life to be meaningless if all we do for the majority of it is work towards retirement.

I'm glad that you're OK, Brett. It makes me feel better to know you are, at least, moderately happy. There's no doubt that work is a grind that wears you down, but it's the only thing that will give you the monetary security that you need in old age. So, you must press on. Meanwhile, when things seem too rough, you can escape into the arms of your beloved Aussie bush. She'll always be there to comfort you when you are in need. 🤗
 
I did eventually learn that looking back can be fraught with misery and discontent. Stopped looking back, now looking forward to retirement when I will be spending most of my time out in the Aussie bush. (When it is not too hot)
The only time to look back is if there was a lesson to be learned to help you move forward.
At this point in life, we all have baggage. Just be sure its a 'carry on'.
 
I think it’s too short. I think humans should live a minimum of 200 years and our bodies should adjust to our age as it does now. Whoever decided that life should end anywhere from 0-90?

I was thinking about this a few years ago and it came to me that suppose our nominal age for dying was 40. Just think how much we would miss out on seeing what inventions and life changes took place? OTOH, think about how much more we could see in changes if we could stick around another 100+ years.

I never understood how our age number was determined. I’ve heard a lot of theories, but nothing scientific. Did God determine the length of our life?
 
Bob Dylan - Forever young (last verse)

May your hands always be busy
May your feet always be swift
May you have a strong foundation
When the winds of changes shift
May your heart always be joyful
And may your song always be sung
May you stay forever young
Forever young, forever young
May you stay forever young.
 

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