She knows the hours I work and sleep cuz we already discussed it once. She works 2 to 10:30 but she barely sleeps. Like I said, I'll try one more time. If that doesn't work then I'm just gonna do my thing at night and if she can't sleep or the kid can't sleep...oh well. No more tiptoeing around being polite.Taking the time to talk to her & explaining your work hours is the way to go & I hope it works. She should understand not everyone works 9 to 5, Monday through Friday with weekends & holidays off.
Even when my daughter was little, she wasn't allowed to run like a herd of buffalo through the house or scream ... there's an inside voice & outside voice.