Life in the Hood, my apartment hood

Aneeda72

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It is my second walk of the day around 8 am. Got my phone, got my walker, and off I go. Dodge the younger set on scooters, racing down the sidewalk, on their way to school. The cute little girls scoot on by-big sister about 8, little sister about 6, both yelling hi as they race past. Little one turn around, waves, falls off scooter, gets up, yells “I am ok”, and races on.

Next encounter is the young woman with the, guessing 8 month, totally untrained old goldendoodle on a retractable leash and his companion a tiny mixed chihuahua. This young lady is rude. I say good morning, she makes a face, and pulls her dogs away from me. I have warned her not to let either jump on me.

Continuing on I say hi to the people out and about, cars leaving, waving to everyone, and now, since they all are used to me they say hi too, or wave as they drive away. Some stop their cars, roll down their windows, and yell good morning. 😊. It’s all good. More social contact than I’ve had in two years.

I reach the mail boxes. There is a woman just getting out of her car. Have not met her before. She says hi, I’ve seen you walking. Yup, I walk a lot. She then launches into a conversation about how she should walk, how she doesn’t walk, why she should walk, when she can start walking, how far she can walk, and when she might start walking. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Oh, gee, I am trying to walk now. But I engage with her, I listen, I response.

Then she says, oh, wait. She runs over and turns her car off. Oh, dear, so we are talking more. 😳. Now she talks about how she is trying to save gas cause her rent got increased. 🤔. I sit down on my walker, walking is paused. Her rent raise and saving plan is discussed which leads to a talk about her disabled son finally getting a job, which leads to all the info on her son, his disabilities, his age, where he goes to school, and how she made him get a job. I mention my disabled sons, briefly, just to you know, join in while she breathes for a second.

Then we heard a loud bang. Sounds like the apartment worker in the golf cart that just passed us might have hit something. Let’s go see I said, expecting her to walk around the corner with me. Nope, she jumps in her car and drives around the corner. 🙄😂. I walk around the corner, nothing to see.

As I walk around the curve, here comes the woman with spaniel. He pulls like a husky in the last lap of an Alaskan dog race. Waving, yelling good morning, she jesters me to come over. I really could stay where I am, her dog is closing in on me fast, pulling her along. The woman in the car, who never did get her mail, 😂, waves and yells, I got to go. The lady with the dog yells hi bye at her. I yell bye.

The woman with the spaniel yells, I’ll pay you to walk my dog every morning, and races over to me. Hmm, it’s starting to get hot, I want to finish and get inside. I’d walk your dog, I say, but your dog doesn’t walk, he pulls. You could wrap the leash around your walker. Yes, I could, I reply, then he’d pull me and the walker over. Oh, she says. I got to walk I say. We will walk along with you she responds. Ok.

Explaining also that they want to show their dog. I think they should show him how to walk on a leash without pulling. I think they should show him how to potty on command. Or show him not to pull her like she was a sled. But I say nothing. She points out that when he stops to sniff the ground, he stops pulling on the leash. 😂😂😂. He’s a good boy and it’s her husbands fault that he pulls. Hmm, ok.

As we walk, she launches into an explanation about how long it takes her dog to poop, how it interferes with her morning, how she wishes I could walk her dog, and on and on and on and thank the dog gods cause he does a dump and she says. Oh, good, such a good boy. Picks up his deposit, says she’s got to run, remember I can come to her apartment anytime and play with him, and off she goes, her dog’s poop in a bag in her hand.

I briefly wonder if shes bronzes the stuff.

Continuing on with my walk, dogging the unfriendly guy with the black lab who is pulling him across the lawn, I get to the daycare center which has the little ones out drawing with chalk on the sidewalk so cute and so quiet. Usually one or two are screaming their brains out. 😁. They don’t notice me, thank heaven. I walk on.

Rounding the corner, I encounter the guy walking his border collie-very brief hi how are you conversation in passing. He is always nice and polite, pulls his dog up on the grass and walks him by. Great dog, likes to walk, walks well on a leash, doesn’t pull, takes a couple sniffs in my direction, and we go our separate ways as I continue on.

Walk past the apartment with the huge husky that is litter box trained. He fills half the patio, the box fills the other half. He barks a little at me, I remind him not to, he stops, and on I walk. Balcony lady is on her balcony. She yells hi, waves, wants to talk, but I tell her I am behind in my walking and I got to go. She yells, oh, ok. Plus so hard to hear what she says.

I encounter the older than me woman with a cane out for her small walk. I think she says hi. I say hi. She says something, waves her hands, and smiles. I do the same. She speaks Italian, I do not. She does not understand English. Yet, we connect. Two old woman taking their walks, ships passing in the night. I feel sorry for her, I know she must be lonely although she lives with family. They have a standard poodle, stubborn big dog.

On the corner the woman with a black poodle, full grown, and a white poodle, 3 months, waves and says hi. She has her dogs on the retractable leashes, and pulls them away from me. They bark bark bark. She tries to hush them, she can’t. I walk on.

The 10 month old cuter than heck corgi with separation anxiety, sitting on his patio, gives me a few good morning barks. He is on the small side and so very cute. Finally, I reach my apartment. The second walk of my day is done.

I love the apartment.
 

It is my second walk of the day around 8 am. Got my phone, got my walker, and off I go. Dodge the younger set on scooters, racing down the sidewalk, on their way to school. The cute little girls scoot on by-big sister about 8, little sister about 6, both yelling hi as they race past. Little one turn around, waves, falls off scooter, gets up, yells “I am ok”, and races on.

Next encounter is the young woman with the, guessing 8 month, totally untrained old goldendoodle on a retractable leash and his companion a tiny mixed chihuahua. This young lady is rude. I say good morning, she makes a face, and pulls her dogs away from me. I have warned her not to let either jump on me.

Continuing on I say hi to the people out and about, cars leaving, waving to everyone, and now, since they all are used to me they say hi too, or wave as they drive away. Some stop their cars, roll down their windows, and yell good morning. 😊. It’s all good. More social contact than I’ve had in two years.

I reach the mail boxes. There is a woman just getting out of her car. Have not met her before. She says hi, I’ve seen you walking. Yup, I walk a lot. She then launches into a conversation about how she should walk, how she doesn’t walk, why she should walk, when she can start walking, how far she can walk, and when she might start walking. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Oh, gee, I am trying to walk now. But I engage with her, I listen, I response.

Then she says, oh, wait. She runs over and turns her car off. Oh, dear, so we are talking more. 😳. Now she talks about how she is trying to save gas cause her rent got increased. 🤔. I sit down on my walker, walking is paused. Her rent raise and saving plan is discussed which leads to a talk about her disabled son finally getting a job, which leads to all the info on her son, his disabilities, his age, where he goes to school, and how she made him get a job. I mention my disabled sons, briefly, just to you know, join in while she breathes for a second.

Then we heard a loud bang. Sounds like the apartment worker in the golf cart that just passed us might have hit something. Let’s go see I said, expecting her to walk around the corner with me. Nope, she jumps in her car and drives around the corner. 🙄😂. I walk around the corner, nothing to see.

As I walk around the curve, here comes the woman with spaniel. He pulls like a husky in the last lap of an Alaskan dog race. Waving, yelling good morning, she jesters me to come over. I really could stay where I am, her dog is closing in on me fast, pulling her along. The woman in the car, who never did get her mail, 😂, waves and yells, I got to go. The lady with the dog yells hi bye at her. I yell bye.

The woman with the spaniel yells, I’ll pay you to walk my dog every morning, and races over to me. Hmm, it’s starting to get hot, I want to finish and get inside. I’d walk your dog, I say, but your dog doesn’t walk, he pulls. You could wrap the leash around your walker. Yes, I could, I reply, then he’d pull me and the walker over. Oh, she says. I got to walk I say. We will walk along with you she responds. Ok.

Explaining also that they want to show their dog. I think they should show him how to walk on a leash without pulling. I think they should show him how to potty on command. Or show him not to pull her like she was a sled. But I say nothing. She points out that when he stops to sniff the ground, he stops pulling on the leash. 😂😂😂. He’s a good boy and it’s her husbands fault that he pulls. Hmm, ok.

As we walk, she launches into an explanation about how long it takes her dog to poop, how it interferes with her morning, how she wishes I could walk her dog, and on and on and on and thank the dog gods cause he does a dump and she says. Oh, good, such a good boy. Picks up his deposit, says she’s got to run, remember I can come to her apartment anytime and play with him, and off she goes, her dog’s poop in a bag in her hand.

I briefly wonder if shes bronzes the stuff.

Continuing on with my walk, dogging the unfriendly guy with the black lab who is pulling him across the lawn, I get to the daycare center which has the little ones out drawing with chalk on the sidewalk so cute and so quiet. Usually one or two are screaming their brains out. 😁. They don’t notice me, thank heaven. I walk on.

Rounding the corner, I encounter the guy walking his border collie-very brief hi how are you conversation in passing. He is always nice and polite, pulls his dog up on the grass and walks him by. Great dog, likes to walk, walks well on a leash, doesn’t pull, takes a couple sniffs in my direction, and we go our separate ways as I continue on.

Walk past the apartment with the huge husky that is litter box trained. He fills half the patio, the box fills the other half. He barks a little at me, I remind him not to, he stops, and on I walk. Balcony lady is on her balcony. She yells hi, waves, wants to talk, but I tell her I am behind in my walking and I got to go. She yells, oh, ok. Plus so hard to hear what she says.

I encounter the older than me woman with a cane out for her small walk. I think she says hi. I say hi. She says something, waves her hands, and smiles. I do the same. She speaks Italian, I do not. She does not understand English. Yet, we connect. Two old woman taking their walks, ships passing in the night. I feel sorry for her, I know she must be lonely although she lives with family. They have a standard poodle, stubborn big dog.

On the corner the woman with a black poodle, full grown, and a white poodle, 3 months, waves and says hi. She has her dogs on the retractable leashes, and pulls them away from me. They bark bark bark. She tries to hush them, she can’t. I walk on.

The 10 month old cuter than heck corgi with separation anxiety, sitting on his patio, gives me a few good morning barks. He is on the small side and so very cute. Finally, I reach my apartment. The second walk of my day is done.

I love the apartment.
So HAPPY you're ENJOYING LIFE.
Hope it's a sign of good things to come.....Henry included.
 
Sounds like a very friendly place, and more dogs than people. 😀
I do believe the dogs equal the people. It is a large complex, lots of kids of all ages, lots of dog of all ages, and a very diverse population of different colors and nationalities. It is also what I call a green space apartment. I looked at senior complex, ugh. Tall sterile buildings, parking lots, and no green spaces or services near by. Although the services nears this apartment are close, they are not in easy walking distance.
 
This is very cool! Do you think any
Of the folks you’ve interacting with might become friends you could visit with? Is that something you’d like?
Funny that you ask @Ronni

I met Jackie on one of my walks. It started out with the say hi in passing, then the stop and gap a little, then longer gab sessions, then on the way to an acquaintance as she wanted/needed a friend. And why not me?

She explained about her two surgeries -neck and back- she was wearing a back brace. She explained how she did not have a car how it had been stolen out of the apartment parking lot and since she was off work, and just cancel her insurance to save money as she was not driving. So no money from the insurance and the car had not yet been found.

She is in her 40’s. She talked about how she got so depressed she would sit and cry in her apartment and while her two daughters lived with her, they where daughters not friends. She explained all this in my living room when we walked over to my place and I invited her in.

I said she was welcome anytime. We made plans to walk together every day. On our first walk, which was for a couple hours, we blah, blah, blah. We are very compatible. She talked about her family, about a cousin who lived nearby who took her shopping, about life in general. And she mentioned how happy she was with our talks.

And then she flaked. Hmm.

A no show on our next walk. No answer at the door. Hmm. I mention this to Donna (more about her later). Donna says she has not seen her either. We talk about a well check by the apartment management. Donna gets her phone number. Calls repeatedly.

Finally she answered. Her toy poodle died, she has been super depressed, the three of them supposedly locked in the apartment-non responsive. Except I know they were not there. No lights on ever. Oh well.

So I am walking, she is on her patio and hales me. When can you walk she yells. I am going to walk again at 6 am. I’ll join you tomorrow. We walk, we talk, exchange phone numbers, its great. I like her, I’ve met her daughters who work from home. All is good. We agree to meet again at 10 am.

I get a text. She is still at the store. We agree to meet and walk at 6 pm. I get a text, something came up, can’t make it. What’s going on I text back. No answer. Alrighty. She flakes, again. Again, have not heard from her in days.

So, hmm, we will walk when she is available. But a friendship? Nope.
 
Funny that you ask @Ronni

I met Jackie on one of my walks. It started out with the say hi in passing, then the stop and gap a little, then longer gab sessions, then on the way to an acquaintance as she wanted/needed a friend. And why not me?

She explained about her two surgeries -neck and back- she was wearing a back brace. She explained how she did not have a car how it had been stolen out of the apartment parking lot and since she was off work, and just cancel her insurance to save money as she was not driving. So no money from the insurance and the car had not yet been found.

She is in her 40’s. She talked about how she got so depressed she would sit and cry in her apartment and while her two daughters lived with her, they where daughters not friends. She explained all this in my living room when we walked over to my place and I invited her in.

I said she was welcome anytime. We made plans to walk together every day. On our first walk, which was for a couple hours, we blah, blah, blah. We are very compatible. She talked about her family, about a cousin who lived nearby who took her shopping, about life in general. And she mentioned how happy she was with our talks.

And then she flaked. Hmm.

A no show on our next walk. No answer at the door. Hmm. I mention this to Donna (more about her later). Donna says she has not seen her either. We talk about a well check by the apartment management. Donna gets her phone number. Calls repeatedly.

Finally she answered. Her toy poodle died, she has been super depressed, the three of them supposedly locked in the apartment-non responsive. Except I know they were not there. No lights on ever. Oh well.

So I am walking, she is on her patio and hales me. When can you walk she yells. I am going to walk again at 6 am. I’ll join you tomorrow. We walk, we talk, exchange phone numbers, its great. I like her, I’ve met her daughters who work from home. All is good. We agree to meet again at 10 am.

I get a text. She is still at the store. We agree to meet and walk at 6 pm. I get a text, something came up, can’t make it. What’s going on I text back. No answer. Alrighty. She flakes, again. Again, have not heard from her in days.

So, hmm, we will walk when she is available. But a friendship? Nope.
Yes, she could be a bit bi-polar or have those kind of personalty issues. Years ago, we had a neighbor who was like that - she lived on 4 acres with a niece on the next acreage - had built a house on it to be close to the niece. She would be very friendly to my mom and I one day and then not even wave when we drove by her house on other days. Turns out she had the onset of Alzheimers.

You never know.
 
Good story and funny at times.

I remember living in an apartment when I first got married. I enjoyed my time there because everyone was like looking out for each other. Reminded me of a big community all living together. My wife had just got her PhD and I was hired by Air Wisconsin just a few months later. We were really excited about our future.
 
Well, speaking of Jackie, I went out to walk before we went to the store and there she was walking towards me. First time I had seen her in days. 😮. Hi, she says. I sent you a text,about walking, but you must not have got it. I did not get a text. This darn phone she says, you pay so much for them and they don’t work. Hmm.

I have to go home, I say. I’ve got sweats on and they are too hot. “Are you going to walk more now?” No, I got to go change and then we are going out. (Just got a text from Jackie, she is not going to make our 4/5 o’clock walk date 😂).

She looks good. No longer wearing her back brace and was walking fast enough to be sweating. It’s hot, but not that hot and she has shorts and a thin shirt on. She says she was sick. Had a Covid test, and it was negative. She has been vaccinated so I am not sure why she got tested. Saw the doctor, it was just a virus. 🤦🏻‍♀️ I sit down on my walker. She said her girls were sick as well. Hmm.

Are you going to walk another lap she asked. No, I say again. I need to change I am hot. Well, I am going to walk two more laps, looks at her phone, then lunch, then come over and we will walk later. Ok. We talk some more and she says oh. I just remembered.

I want to get my car washed. She bought a new car last week. Then I want to go to the store, then Sams club, and now she texted me that she wants to go to Lowe’s and won’t make our walk. 😳😂. Well, I didn’t think she would.

It is strange, she was in so much pain but seems very energized and not in pain now. Her doctor said she can not work for a year and she said her benefits will end soon. She plans on applying for SSI. She won’t get it, I am sure. She said she is on a tight budget, but is doing a lot of running around. Oh, well, not my business.

I say goodbye and head home where I encounter the woman with the 4 month of Australian Shepard-he is so very cute. A black bronze color with a nub of a tail and a happy always panting smiley face. He is on a retractable leash, of course 🙄, and pulling towards the apartment. He knows where he lives.

She has a large basket with laundry, soap bleach, she folded clothes, her puppy pulling her forward, and we say hi and both walk on. Conversations with her are very short and limited. She has a ground floor apartment, an under 3 month old baby which is sometimes strapped in a front facing carrier on her chest, and the puppy always on the long leash. Sometimes I see her with her older dog, another Australian Shepard. Apparently a baby and a puppy are not enough.

I have not seen her husband, but she is out alone with the puppy often so he stays with baby, I suppose.
 
On this walk, I also saw the woman with the fat pug. The pug wears a harness and waddles as fat little dogs are prone to do. The woman with the large black and white mixed barks a lot shitzu (or however you spell it). Neither of these people are sociable.

Ops, more later, go to go 😊
 
On the way to the store I get a text from Jackie, we can walk, I’ll be back soon. 😂

Anyway, almost home. On the third floor patio, the black large German Shepard keeps watch. He barks and barks and barks at all who dare to invade his kingdom and he is fierce in his displeasure. They have lived here a month. He has not lived in an apartment before.

But, when brought down for potty, this fierce territorial large black and tan German Shepard walks up to me, sniffs me up and down, gently, and I pass inspection as he moves on by. The small dog below him, on the second floor apartment patio, is now being kept more indoors-otherwise a continued bark fest. They barbecue a lot, the small dog owners, and limit conversation to hi.

The ground floor apartment has an elderly navy veteran and a wife who I have never seen. He stops and says hi to me and Nikkie, my favorite woman acquaintance of the bunch. Asks how we are etc. He is hard of hearing, a disabled vet with a full pension so he has a nice income between that and social security. No dog.

He takes the only disabled parking place on this side of the building 😳, and I never try to grab it when he is gone. He does not having a walking issue except he is old and slow; and he needs to use a walker to bring in his groceries. He is a navy vet, my husband a marine vet, me an army vet, now where is the Air Force?😂
 

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