bobcat
Well-known Member
- Location
- Northern Calif
Many people recite vows of devotion to each other, "till death do us part"
Captain & Tennille popularized the song: "Love will keep us together",
and yet the landscape is littered with the breakups of a million people who once were in love, and now they're not (Including Cap'n & Tennille)
It seems that people evolve over time. You're not the same person at 60 as you were at 30. If you are, you've probably wasted 30 years of your life.
We all grow and change, and perhaps "love" always receives top billing, and it shouldn't. No one wants to one day discover, “Who is this person and do I want to spend the rest of my life like this?”
Personally, I think compatibility is far more important than love (Although still an important part).
It keeps long lasting friendships together quite well because you are like-minded and enjoy the same things. You just love being with that other person.
What are your thoughts on the matter?
Captain & Tennille popularized the song: "Love will keep us together",
and yet the landscape is littered with the breakups of a million people who once were in love, and now they're not (Including Cap'n & Tennille)
It seems that people evolve over time. You're not the same person at 60 as you were at 30. If you are, you've probably wasted 30 years of your life.
We all grow and change, and perhaps "love" always receives top billing, and it shouldn't. No one wants to one day discover, “Who is this person and do I want to spend the rest of my life like this?”
Personally, I think compatibility is far more important than love (Although still an important part).
It keeps long lasting friendships together quite well because you are like-minded and enjoy the same things. You just love being with that other person.
What are your thoughts on the matter?