Memorable dining extravaganzas ...... are they worth it?

At the other end of the scale I recall a restaurant near the United Nations in NYC ( about 1959) called Cedars of Lebanon that had a 5 course meal for $4.95. The first course was Pita bread with hummus. (It was the first time I had either). Dessert was baklava. I forget the rest but it was an inexpensive fun experience.
 
Journey to Hong Kong in search of Wok Hei

My personal last taste of wok hei was in Carson City, NV at a GREAT Chinese restaurant in 1986. The dish was Shrimp Chow Fun which is wide noodles basically scorched on a dry wok w just a tiny bit of black bean sauce. Nowadays they just cook the noodles in a bunch of oil and throw on a pint of black bean sauce so it's one homogenous lump of noodle on a plate:cry:.

When I mention wok hei in Asian restaurants they look at me like I have 3 heads!!!
 
I’ve been to San Francisco frequently because we aren’t that far. The allure of going there was the fabulous view along with good food.
(apologies to the OP for going off-topic with this - I probably should have created a new thread. My bad!)
Yes, sadly it's usually a given that the restaurants with a view aren't the ones with the very best food, LOL. FYI one of the most terrific views of all is the new coffeeshop, Round House Cafe (it's a historic bldg, just reopened after being renovated after a long closure) that is part of SF's newest park.

A TikTok post had a quick video - even on a foggy day it's beautiful. It's located at the highest point in the park; those ramps/stairs lead down the hill to the various areas of the park. I believe it is technically part of the Golden Gate National Recreation Area.
Round House Cafe

Also, if you like views, the remodeled/reopened upscale Empress by Boon, formerly the Empress of China restaurant, has beautiful city and Bay views, as well as excellent Cantonese banquet and Asian fusion dishes. The owner/chef Ho Chee Boon is a Michelin-starred chef and had fond memories of the Empress. When it closed down, he decided to try to reopen it with better quality food and an updated luxe decor. Yelp has very good photos:
Photos for Empress by Boon/SF Chinatown

Almost all the restaurants along SF's Embarcadero, as well as the ones along the rear of the SF Ferry Plaza Building (where almost all the ferries to/from SF dock), have views. Epic Steakhouse and Waterbar (seafood) are sister restaurants, with Bay views.

But one of the best is hidden from just about all tourists. Moderately priced and good American comfort food, visitors miss Mersea because although technically it is in San Francisco, geographically it is 5 miles outside the actual city!

Treasure Island is an artificial island and is within San Francisco city limits, even though it is located 5 miles across water from SF's land edge. It is a 400 acre artificial island built by the Army Corps of Engineers in 1936-37 on the shoals of neighboring Yerba Buena Island. Yerba Buena holds the halfway point supports for the Bay Bridge that connects San Francisco to the East Bay (Berkeley, Oakland, Alameda, Richmond, et.al.).

The island was built to host the 1939 and 1940 Golden Gate International Exposition World's Fair and as San Francisco's first airport. After the fair (there's a lovely little museum celebrating the Fair with a great video documentary), the US Navy used it as one of their bases until 1997. SF only recently began developing TI for housing and retail, as using the Bay Bridge (which has horrendous commuter traffic) is the only way on/off the island. Yerba Buena, however, is still private (i.e., closed to the public) as it is used by the US Coast Guard.

Mersea Restaurant has good food, moderate prices, and jaw-dropping views of not only San Francisco but literally almost 300-degrees around the Bay (Yerba Buena Island gets in the way of a complete 365-degree view, LOL). Standing on Treasure Island you are not very high up from the waters of SF Bay/Pacific Ocean; it was intended to be flat and close to sea level.
Photos for Mersea Restaurant & Bar/Treasure Island, SF
 
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So...back on-topic. "Dining extravaganza" these days usually means an upscale prix fixe; i.e., tasting, menu of multiple courses. Here in the SFBA there are some moderate-priced multiple course menus, but yes, they are very rare. Also, "moderate price" in the San Francisco Bay Area must be viewed proportionately; we are a HCOL area (and have been for decades) so 'moderate' is currently defined by most of our food blogs/boards as averaging from $35-60/pp before drinks, tax and tips.

(Just an aside: "Budget" menus are almost always "Happy Hour" menus, because you are expected to get a drink before ordering, whether alcoholic or not. They're often very good deals, too.)

In the spring of this year we went to a well-regarded new restaurant, Table Culture in Petaluma, CA, which is focused on a lower-priced tasting menu experience. It was quite good. Here's an excerpt from the review I wrote up (I do these for myself, but also email to a very limited group of friends who are also foodies):

Table Culture, Petaluma CA, April 2024:
This is a tasting menu-only restaurant, dinner only. They prefer reservations (through Resy) but do accept walk-ins if tables are available. Per their intent, although exquisitely presented and carefully coursed, the dishes presented are not exotic, but familiar. These are what good bistro cooking would produce if only the best ingredients were sourced, and the execution was as close to perfect as possible, with disciplined skill and the kind of careful precision normally given only to food costing hundreds of dollars more per person.

The cost is very moderate: the seven-course meal is $125; the four-course meal is $75. You choose whatever one you wish, once you are seated. There are several optional additions one can add, at varying prices. Note that these dishes are small bites; four courses would amount to four bites of food – even with amuse-bouches, about half a meal. Spouse and I both chose the seven course option, and ordered a bottle of Pellegrino.


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Our conclusion (and for SF members, yes, it was just the right amount of food, more than sufficient and extremely high quality):
Would we return to TCP? We have several friends who would be much more comfortable here than at Commis or Michael Warring. It would be no hardship to dine here again: good food, beautiful presentation, flawless service, a quiet and attractive dining room. The price is reasonable for the excellent quality. I would suspect the kitchen’s reliability factor is very high. If they occasionally stick with the mundane, IOHO better that with top quality and consistent execution, than the outre ‘fad of the moment’ that fails to satisfy.

Table Culture has invented a niche dining market for itself, which is nothing short of brilliant. It is a splurge, but remains within an affordable range that Bay Area’s Michelin stalwarts such as Crenn, Benu, Single Thread, Meadowood et. al. have long abandoned. It was noticeable that half the diners were Millennials and Gen X’ers, who are not easy to draw in on a weekday evening. Kudos to TCP for recognizing, and taking advantage of, a restaurant offering something that diners didn’t know they were missing.
 
Back in the day my wife had a job in which she dealt with high end financial firms. This led to some very fine dining which I also engaged in. Those days are past, but nothing either of us misses. In my opinion pricey dining is vastly overrated.
 
My gastrointestinal tract is so small from eating smaller servings most of my adult life that I cannot eat large meals even when I want to. Don't like pushing it as soon as I feel bloated not just while eating but the way it effects me digesting for hours afterward. Because of dietary limitations due to health, have to be careful anytime at restaurants avoiding eating anything with MSG and caffeine. Additionally, dislike foods with strong flavors and fragrances, especially spicy foods.

That noted, I do envy those that can enjoy eating a wide range of foods.
 
My father enjoyed good food in small portions. He was also a rather good looking guy enjoying nice rides. When he went on business trips within the two day ranges of Swiss/Austria/France he allowed a ride along on a school excuse. We discussed everything from the school to fashion. Only the best in hotels and food. I will never forget the dinner with silver ware to win a war and staff in tails and gloves. Curry? Sure. Lick chop good! When the maitre took the bowls away after serving game I liked him with one of the forks. Hey big man, little me wants more! several years later and all grown up I wanted to crawl into the woodwork. He did recognize me.
Food has always been a thing of mine. Out local foods in Bavaria/Swabian can be pinpointed almost to a house in a village. My folks were travellers. SO and I moved and moved. Food is memories and history. I am blessed with a mate who enjoys food and is open to trying things. Did you know that you can attach A drill to a manual pasta crank? Work wise I had the pleasure to deal with great personalities and useless divas in the food industry.
Keep it genuine. Keep it plain. Share it.
Extravaganza? It is 25-30 for a decent ribeye. Add wine, from from and it runs me 50-75/person. Shirts, shoes and pants required since we had an incident.
We literally ate our way through DC and then I started cooking. Catered wedding as gifts.
 
To be honest, it’s not for me either. I’m not a fan of eating out. Plus we eat really good meals at home where neither of us mind cooking. Today we made 11 jars of potato and ham soup. We partially cooked it and then cooked it for 3 more hours in the Mason jars.

Spending 5 hours in a restaurant is FAR too long and $250 per person is just FAR too much.
 
>>Spending 5 hours in a restaurant is FAR too long and $250 per person is just FAR too much.>>

Well, hardly any restaurant requires you to spend that long - the average is 2 hrs or less (and we have spent 2+ hrs in moderate priced restaurants when they ended up slammed by too many last minute diners or were short-staffed). Most diners who have done 3+hr dinners say even if the food was great they didn't enjoy sitting down that long.

The new style of high-end tasting menu restaurants is designed as a 'social evening.' One seating per night: walk into one room/area with your fellow diners for pre-dinner drinks and nibbles, go into the main DR for the sit-down starters/entrees, and then another round of circulating socially (or even helping in the kitchen, for those who want to) for coffee, desserts, liqueurs. Very civilized and relaxing, and much better for the digestion! There's only a few of these so far, so we haven't tried any yet.

Cost is relative. If you can't afford it, or don't want to spend it, that's your choice. As I prefer quiet, comfortable surroundings, I'm all for fewer people dining at the same time as us, LOL!

We have no kids and few obligations. Our income has tripled in retirement and good food has been my lifelong hobby. We are lucky to eat what we like, when we like, however often we like. I have had many years when spending $25 for the two of us was something I had to budget for. Now we're nearing the end of our "first phase of retirement," and intend to continue enjoying life as much as possible....until we can't.

All good things must come to an end. It's why we should enjoy them while they last.
 
This was our April 2024 tasting menu dinner at Table Culture/Petaluma, CA. Choice of 4-courses or 7-courses. There are two amuse-bouches (bite-sized free nibbles) interspersed within the meal (one amuse-bouche with the 4-course) and a box of three mignardises, mini-sweets, to take home. There are a couple of optional sides; we chose one, the Parker House rolls.

We opted for the 7-course and drank Pellegrino sparkling water with our meal; coffees with dessert. Menu is above, post #32.

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Yuzu Oyster & Roe: Failed to write down the variety of oyster, but each was garnished with a single ring of pickled green onion and salmon caviar, in a yuzu dressing. Very tasty.

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Black Madeleine & Caviar: A squid ink madeleine, topped with CA caviar and the sparkle of a flake of gold foil. I love all three ingredients – squid ink, madeleines, and caviar – but although pleasant, this wasn't the "wow" I would have expected. It felt as if something was needed to bring all the flavors of bitter, starch, and fish together. Perhaps a touch of crème fraiche? Spouse was fine with it as is (he dislikes fermented dairy).
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Crab Bite: Very thin, crackly pani puri shell with crabmeat salad filling. The nasturtium leaf “cap” was a nice touch of color, although flavor-wise it didn’t add much. We would have happily eaten another half a dozen!

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Parker House rolls (surcharge $8): choice of butter – honey or nori (seaweed)
We opted for the nori butter, but it was very strongly flavored. Fine by itself, but didn’t really go well any of the courses. We don’t think the honey butter would have been any better, either. TCP should offer plain butter as one of the choices as a standard option. The roll itself was good, although we’ve had better Parker House rolls elsewhere.

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Beef Tartare Tartlet: We’ve noticed a trend in restaurants towards pre-mixing beef tartare, and can’t say we approve of it. Here it was a necessity for the presentation, and in view of that it was fine. A crisp little tart shell held the tartare, with green onion shavings on top. The beef was very mild, as Wagyu usually is. It had a nice balance of the capers, minced shallots, and egg yolk added.

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(Continued: April 2024 tasting menu dinner at Table Culture/Petaluma, CA. )

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Mushroom Gougère: Nice puffy gougere filled with a delicious duxelles. Heaven for fungi lovers like us!

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Asparagus Cappuccino: Deeply flavored asparagus soup, sprinkled with powdered dried asparagus.

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Braised Beef Cheek – Taleggio Espuma Burnt Onion: The slightly foamed cheese sauce was delicious, but it was somewhat messy trying to get sauce plus an entire ravioli onto the spoon and into your mouth. Hard to eat from such a deep, small bowl! The pasta dough was thicker than expected but still, a delicious dish even if the presentation was more for looks than ease of eating.

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Branzino – Green Asparagus Parsnips Black Garlic: TCP was unable to obtain black cod due to supply issues, so substituted a branzino fillet. We were disappointed, but the kitchen did a fine job on the branzino. It had a lovely crust yet was juicy and perfectly cooked. The asparagus was fine; the parsnip foam as usual had little flavor to add. We are not lovers of foam, considering it one of the most over-used and tiresome ideas from molecular gastronomy.

This was the dish that truly showed off the talents of the chef. Notice how little sauce is on the plate? It was the perfect amount: just enough for impact, leaving one wanting more; yet proportioned correctly so that its intensity didn’t overwhelm the other flavors on the plate. The sauce was a triple fish reduction with black garlic and was, in a word, sensational. It blended everything together into a perfect whole. Definitely worth a rave!

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(Finishing up: April 2024 tasting menu dinner at Table Culture/Petaluma, CA. )

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Scallop – Arancini – Carrot Pavé, Roasted Fish Jus: A perfect seared scallop paired with a cheese/rice arancini. The carrot pavé was a stunning accompaniment, with more of that luscious fish reduction, sans black garlic, as the sauce. We voted this the best plate of the night – simple, yet precisely balanced in flavors and textures.

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Citron Lemon Mousse – White Chocolate – Coconut: The foamy top was coconut cream with white chocolate. Good idea to foam it slightly, lightening the dull heaviness of white chocolate. The citron/Meyer lemon mousse was very nice. Tiny balls of raw cucumber added interest to it. Good, but wasn’t anything memorable.

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Milk & White Chocolate Tartlet – Pear Compote – Hazelnut Praline: A milk chocolate and pear filling was pleasant although not exciting, while the swirled white chocolate frosting was lovely to look at, if nothing remarkable to taste. We're bittersweet chocolate fans. Spouse likes sugar more than I do, but overall we’ve had more interesting desserts elsewhere. The hazelnut praline was a striking garnish, although it’s more looks than substance. You mostly taste the heavy glazing of burnt sugar, which obscures the small toasted hazelnut.

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Cote Sucre
We each received three tiny (thumb-sized) mignardises, packed to take home:
Coconut flakes in chocolate: like a soggy Rice Krispies ball, as it sat in our refrig for a couple of days!
Bright pink ball holding a startlingly intense berry juice: Wonderful, best dessert by far. Perfect size, too – anything bigger would have been overkill.
Pistachio mini-cake: Similar to a madeleine but round; pleasant but ordinary.

Summary:
We enjoyed our meal at Table Culture, keeping in mind this is not intended to be, nor is it, the equivalent of Aubergine/Carmel or Michael Warring/Vallejo. Each course was well-crafted, with complementary textures and clean, well-defined flavors. The service is top-notch, the presentations are lovely.

There are no showy surprises or harsh flavor contrasts here. If you or your guests are reluctant about the concept of tasting menus, then TCP is an ideal restaurant for an introduction to this type of dining. The food is approachable in a way that 98% of tasting menus are not. It is delicious, without being clad in the pretentiousness of (for example) Commis/Oakland, where it was impossible to hold a conversation without the waitstaff interrupting every three minutes to make sure you properly appreciated the food.

We enjoyed TCP, and would recommend it if you are in the area. Sonoma County is our favorite destination for travel eating, and well worth the 4-6x per year we visit various parts of this very large and beautiful county. We prefer it to the Napa Valley, albeit it is twice the size and therefore, best experienced by limiting the geographic area one visits.
 
@Lethe200
Unfortunately, I have seafood allergies .. however, that was a very impressive tasting menu.

We go to Auberge du Pommier, once a year or so, either for Summerlicious or Winterlicious, here in Toronto, but it doesn't offer quite so many courses.
 
I worked in center city Philly for about 5 years. a co-worker organized our Christmas luncheon. right after Labor Day (unofficial end of summer), we started chipping in $5 r so every pay day. we all went to Le Bec Fin for lunch. fabulous escargot in champagne butter sauce!
 

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