PeppermintPatty
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While I’m not completely unsympathetic , I’m not sure why you are blaming these women. Surely you didn’t think you were going to be the only ones to benefit this type of relationship?The thousands of Filipino hospital nurses over here have got it well worked out, and their friendship circle is like a small community. These guys think with what they have between their legs and the girls with their brains, and I know who wins. Plus, the age gap does not really work for many, just some.
Wanting to benefit sexually by hooking up with these young women has consequences which I’m sure your brother knew about when he agreed to it.
Of course these women want a family. Why wouldn’t they and you can’t exactly blame them for wanting to hook up with someone who actually has a job so they can provide.That’s being smart and that’s part of the deal.
Your brother wants a woman basically looking for a sugar daddy who can take care of her and her family and your brother wants a young women to basically ****!
However you want to slice this, it’s about 2 adults making a decision that suites them both and the rewards come at different times to each partner.
You can’t play victim to something that you willingly participated in. Your brother did think with his **** and these are the consequences. Sorry to be blunt but he knew what he was doing.
After Note: There are many different ethnic groups who stay together after the husband dies. When I was younger, we lived in a suburb with Filipino’s, Italians, Portuguese etc and there were always multiple families living in the one house. When I was younger I used to think it was out of necessity but now that I’m older, I realize that it’s for companionship. These were close knit families who shared love and responsibilities and they did a fine job of it.
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