Moving in With Your Children

[Jules]

Do you think you should be able to move in with your children?

If they had financial problems would you suggest moving in with them.

Could a granny flat work for you.

Would you make a significant move to be close to them.

Would you be offended if they said no.

 

[Pepper]

My kids have no room for me. They have small NYC Apartment. I can’t imagine living anywhere else but near them. That’s why I didn’t move to FL when I had the opportunity. I would love it if they had space with Granny Flat
IT AIN’T GONNA HAPPEN. Wish it could

 

[That Lady in PA]

Do you think you should be able to move in with your children?

If they had financial problems would you suggest moving in with them.

Could a granny flat work for you.

Would you make a significant move to be close to them.

Would you be offended if they said no.

Should? Not at all..

I would never suggest I move in with them.

I suppose it could, but they would have to move into a place that had one, and I would have to want to move to that area..

No, as they can just move away (that has happened to friends)

I would not be offended... but then, I would not ask to move in.

 

[jujube]

There's no way I could move in with my daughter. I'd move in with my granddaughter if there was a granny flat. I know I'd be welcome.

 

[oldman]

When my daughter divorced her husband maybe 10 years ago, her and her two sons came to stay with us for the next 18 months. My wife and I was fine with that. I never asked for a dime, even though she offered. She wanted to work and save to buy her home. I told her we would loan her the money, but she didn’t want it that way. The boys were 17 and 9 years of age. It made everything very easy. We enjoyed having them here and I really missed the boys when they moved out. I felt like an empty nester again.

 

[Della]

Do you think you should be able to move in with your children?

Yes. My grandmother in with my parents when she turned 90. They would have been welcome with me when they got too old to live alone.

If they had financial problems would you suggest moving in with them.

Yes, if I thought it would help them.

Could a granny flat work for you.

Yes.

Would you make a significant move to be close to them.

Yes.

Would you be offended if they said no.

Yes. I wouldn't be asking unless it was homelessness or them, so yes, it would hurt my feelings to be told, "no."