My brother passed away at 14 years of age when I was 18 ( in 1964) at the time I was told he’d died from the effects of epilepsy. He was in a boys training school at his time of passing ,a polite way of referring to what was called a reformatory .
He was bought back from Sydney in NSW to where we lived about 800km south of Sydney for burial ,I attended his funeral
about a week after being informed of his death.
Now my only living Aunty on my mothers side of the family told me 3 weeks ago my brother was murdered and didn’t die from the side effects of epilepsy as we’d been led to believe for all these years , this shocked me to the core apparently my brother who’s name was Ronald face was severely bruised and he’d been raped ( my aunt attended my brothers inquest into his death). I haven’t had allot of contact with my aunt over the years ( only at Christmas ) ,as I left the city where I was born / raised when I was was about 23
Now I’ve looked online ,phoned different places to get some clarity about my brother but no one has any records on my brother which is understandable in a sense with the passing of years however you’d think the likes of the coroners dept would have kept records, the only advice I was given was to get my parents to apply for the results WHAT !!!!!and they may be able to find them in the archives
I’m 73 years old I don’t have parents ,the same with a death certificate that may or may not show cause of death my parents are the only ones that can apply for that as well.
Yesterday I looked up burial records for where he’s buried and you wouldn’t believe it no records ( he’s buried right next to my grandparents ) I phoned the council who manages the cemetery they asked me several times if I’m sure he was buried in Broken Hill ..YES he was the last time I visited his grave three weeks ago , on my journey to Queensland by car
It’s like my brother never existed, it’s left me shaking my head no records of him anywhere
And to think all this mystery stated by me asking my Aunty a few family questions after getting my DNA done.
He was bought back from Sydney in NSW to where we lived about 800km south of Sydney for burial ,I attended his funeral
about a week after being informed of his death.
Now my only living Aunty on my mothers side of the family told me 3 weeks ago my brother was murdered and didn’t die from the side effects of epilepsy as we’d been led to believe for all these years , this shocked me to the core apparently my brother who’s name was Ronald face was severely bruised and he’d been raped ( my aunt attended my brothers inquest into his death). I haven’t had allot of contact with my aunt over the years ( only at Christmas ) ,as I left the city where I was born / raised when I was was about 23
Now I’ve looked online ,phoned different places to get some clarity about my brother but no one has any records on my brother which is understandable in a sense with the passing of years however you’d think the likes of the coroners dept would have kept records, the only advice I was given was to get my parents to apply for the results WHAT !!!!!and they may be able to find them in the archives
I’m 73 years old I don’t have parents ,the same with a death certificate that may or may not show cause of death my parents are the only ones that can apply for that as well.
Yesterday I looked up burial records for where he’s buried and you wouldn’t believe it no records ( he’s buried right next to my grandparents ) I phoned the council who manages the cemetery they asked me several times if I’m sure he was buried in Broken Hill ..YES he was the last time I visited his grave three weeks ago , on my journey to Queensland by car
It’s like my brother never existed, it’s left me shaking my head no records of him anywhere
And to think all this mystery stated by me asking my Aunty a few family questions after getting my DNA done.