I finally have another work day- YAY!!!- but was surfing through during a little break and noticed this.
I agree "modernisms" can go too far!!
However, I still think the idea I came up with decades ago and possibly mentioned here would be good: develop diapers that have some kind of harmless built-in attachment that works similar to the old-fashioned mood rings. The rings reacted to body temperature and changed colors.
I'm sure most people who used disposable diapers can relate to the aggravation of trying to re-stick a tape after finding the diaper did not need to be changed- sometimes even using Scotch Tape to stick them back together! and diapers often got ruined in the process.
With this method, though, you could easily see if a change was necessary without removing the diaper. and it wouldn't be as "nutty" as having your phone send you a text to tell you your child needed a change!!!
I've missed your presence on the forum really bad, Janice. So nice to see you back this morning!
I so remember those old mood-rings! Talk about a walk down memory lane!
Even though I never used disposable diapers on my own children, I did occasionally change them when babysitting, and remember trying to refasten tapes. The plastic on the outside of the diaper would rip and tear when a tape was lifted/opened to check a diaper, and I remember the tapes would frequently pop open on their own as a result of baby's/child's movement (bending, stretching, etc). I remember pin-fastened a few over the years using diaper pins.
Having put my kids through cloth diapers, I always knew when my kids were wet. Diapers would sag terribly when wet, and a hand under a bottom quickly told you if the diaper was soft and fluffy or not, even through a pair of rubber pants.
Having grown up changing baby siblings, my mom taught me to run a finger around the inside elastic waistband of their rubber pants when lifting them out of their cribs after a nap, etc. Took a second and you instantly knew if someone needed changing or not.
IMO, disposables aren't what they should be. I don't think any maker of disposable diapers should put out commercials where they claim their diapers are good for 12 hours (between changes), and I believe that's where a lot of the problems related to diaper rash, etc, are born. Young mothers with little to no experience buy into that sort of thing.
Myself, I prefer the good old-fashioned awareness approach, where you actually check manually. I view it as bonding time for both baby and mom/dad, where the parent is paying close attention to the child. All too often I hear stories of mothers parking their children down in front of the television for hours on end, while they go about their daily business/affairs inside the home.
My opinion/advice to any/all... take a minute out of every hour and checkup on your children. Check their pants. The happiest babies I have ever known are babies who were well-fed and kept clean and dry.