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I would tell her you are sorry for making the light hearted comments about Bella that you did. Tell her you can see that it was in poor taste on your part. Also mention that you might not have liked hearing the same about her and some past guy.

I’ve not read all the posts on this so just my immediate thoughts is all
 
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Her upset ness could be that you had not mentioned this relationship to her before now.
Even if it was friends with benefits etc, you kept it from her. So might be that too Frank? Keeping it from her and now she might feel disrespected?
 
Pepper said:
I would sometimes get mad at husband for past entanglements. Don't know why. My own insecurities, I would guess. It'll go away eventually Frank. It's not like you killed someone.
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Hello, Sweetheart.

I got up and made Meesh's coffee this morning, something I only do for special occasions...and she knew what this occasion was. So we talked about it and that's pretty much what she said, that she's not sure why she feels so pistoff about it, except that she never liked Bella. She said none of the ladies at the apartments liked Bella, and I asked her why, and she said it was because Bella treated her mother very badly.

Bella's mother lived with her, and she had severe dementia. She walked right into my apartment a few times, thinking it was hers & Bella's, which is really odd because you had to climb stairs to get to theirs, but anyway, that's how me and Bella met...Rosa said she was looking for her her daughter, so I took her by the hand and stepped out to see if we could find her. And she was right there, just coming back from the mailboxes, I think.

Funny you should mention killing someone, bc Meesh said Bella hated her mother, and when she died, everyone suspected Bella murdered her.

I know Bella didn't hate her mom; she hated having to take care of her 24/7, and she had a brother who refused to help out. This was our pillow-talk most of the time...maybe every time, actually. Bella was frustrated and worn out, but I never saw her treat her mother badly. She bathed her everyday and fixed her hair pretty and dressed her nicely, and her mom never had a mark on her...like, no bruises or scratches or anything. In fact, she had really nice skin for her age. (what I saw of it)

Anyhoo, I think we're all good now. I'm not sure Michelle is convinced that Bella isn't a matricidal murderer, but we don't have to live with it. That's Bella's cross to bear, if she is.

Now it's just a matter of Meesh getting past the "ick-factor" every time I wink at her. 😜
 
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LadyEmeraude said:
Her upset ness could be that you had not mentioned this relationship to her before now.
Even if it was friends with benefits etc, you kept it from her. So might be that too Frank? Keeping it from her and now she might feel disrespected?
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When Michelle and I started dating, weeks before we were intimate, we mutually agreed not to list past relationships and flings, and even after we were engaged we agreed that was all irrelevant.

But you were spot-on when you said this: "I would tell her you are sorry for making the light hearted comments about Bella that you did."
 

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